Interview Question for Guys: Cross Legs or Not?

[benzino]

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Just wondering the proper way for men to sit during an interview - with legs crossed or not? If not, is crossing at the ankles appropriate?
Any other hints regarding posture are appreciated as well.
Feel free to chime in.

-benzino

 

[VPDcurt]

I would sit up straight and not cross my legs. That's just me though - I don't know if that is the "proper" way or not, but it's just personal preference I guess. I think the most important thing is that you don't slouch. If you aren't comfortable with your legs uncrossed, then don't do it. You might come across as looking uncomfortable and that is not a good thing.

 

[JDAWG07]

Do not sit with your legs crossed. It doesn't look professional and may make you look like your too relaxed.

 

[calstudent]

Do you mean legs crossed like having one ankle at the other knee, or leg's crossed like girls normally cross them?

Yes, I know this post is going to make me look like an imbecile, but could someone please clarify.
Thanks

 

[AznDoc]

I heard that you shouldn't cross your legs during an interview because of the possible perception of being lazy. However, my dad said that if the interview is fairly relaxed and more conversational then it would be okay to cross the legs at the ankles ONLY if the interviewer does it first. It's the whole idea of if you have more authority and power then you can be more relaxed. So don't trump the interviewer by crossing first. You can take that for what its worth, and if you have heard otherwise feel free to post it.

 

[dnelsen]

I've heard that leaning slightly forward is a good thing too. It keeps you from slouching and it shows you are interested and engaged.

 

[Innocent Girl]

I heard that you shouldn't cross your legs during an interview because of the possible perception of being lazy. However, my dad said that if the interview is fairly relaxed and more conversational then it would be okay to cross the legs at the ankles ONLY if the interviewer does it first. It's the whole idea of if you have more authority and power then you can be more relaxed. So don't trump the interviewer by crossing first. You can take that for what its worth, and if you have heard otherwise feel free to post it.

I agree with this. I have heard that you should sort of mimick the body language of the interviewer. Of course, for us girls, crossing legs is a no-brainer, unless you want the interviewer to see your panties. 😉

calstudent - I would advise against crossing your legs like a girl. You might crush your package unless you plan to reach down there and lift it out of the way as you're crossing your legs.

 

[uclabruin2003]

i have heard about mimicking one's body language before...but this book i read (dont laugh) was supposed to be a book on seduction...so not sure if actually following their body language would be a good idea...they might come of the interview, falling head over heels for you. ha.

 

[Innocent Girl]

i have heard about mimicking one's body language before...but this book i read (dont laugh) was supposed to be a book on seduction...so not sure if actually following their body language would be a good idea...they might come of the interview, falling head over heels for you. ha.

Well, whatever works. There are obviously some ethical issues here, but if the interviewer and I can keep it a secret...maybe we can work something out. Hey, I know that we are all competing for spots and my sex appeal is an unfair advantage. However, we all know that life isn't fair.

 

[Shaz]

calstudent - I would advise against crossing your legs like a girl. You might crush your package unless you plan to reach down there and lift it out of the way as you're crossing your legs.

What if your package is uncrushable?

 

[Innocent Girl]

What if your package is uncrushable?

In that case, maybe we should get together for some drinks. 😉

 

[txguy]

You might crush your package unless you plan to reach down there and lift it out of the way as you're crossing your legs.

-tx

 

[casey at bat]

i think if the situation allows for crossing of the legs, then by all means go ahead....but of course you have to be able to pull it off! some guys can't, where it just looks strange if they try. but other guys really look soooo classy and yummy doing it if they're doing it right, depends on the guy i say... 😀 😍


casey

 

[lattimer13]

cross them if you want to if that makes you more comfortable. you can get in if you cross your legs during the interview, don't worry.

 

[Chiku]

This sounds like a Sienfeld topic!

 

[Rugger81]

i can't physically cross my legs. i can't my leg to go over my knee like that.

but my junk is unbreakable, so that's a moot point.