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In my area it's the dumb doctor housewives who are behind this.
Sally is married to Dale, an internist. Their family friend Bob, a surgeon, bought a golf course house worth 1.5 million and his wife, Alexis, just has to bring it up everytime she meets Sally at their monthly kitty party/girl's club/stupid crap that housewives who have nothing better to do...
Sally now looks at the house that Dale and her live in... a great home they purchased with 4,000 square feet that is paid off... and begins picking at things that she feels she needs... and letting her insecurity get to her... talks to Dale about moving... and Dale being a "loving" husband.. does what he is talked into.
Dale and Sally now begin looking at homes so that Sally can go ahead and counter Alexis' brags with her own "Oh well Dale and I also just moved into a home.. yeahh... we only paid somewhere north of 1.6 million... " and yadda yadda yadda...
Poor Dale is now kicking his own butt picking up extra call to afford the mortgage his dumb wife talked him into.
Bottom line is that when you try to compete with people for stupid crap that doesn't mean jack... you will lose.
I'd rather live in a 3500 sq. foot home in a good school district and have time to golf on the weekends rather than live in some stupid mansion I have to work to keep lol
Suckers.
I couldn’t agree more.
When we were looking for a house we decided to get a mortgage that wasn’t more than 25% of the monthly salary of either one of us. Our rationale was that we should go for something that we could pay off easily even if one of us gets sick or, God forbid, dies.
I’m happy with our choice. It’s still a comfortable house and we are not worrying about making ends meet.
Currently, we are holding off on improving our backyard or basement. Instead, we are focused on paying off our mortgage within the next three to five years.
What we have been doing is making large payments on it once a year.
On another note, best investment I ever made? A $300 pool table. I have saved so much and made the wife happy by staying at home (I love playing pool).
Worst investment? My car. I want to get rid of it. In my view, it’s not worth it to pay $700/month for a car that is parked outside of the office or house most of the time.