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But see, that's not always the case. Imagine single coverage ED and no one is willing to step up to cover the shift. My first partner out of residency worked at a hospital with a single OB/GYN. If dude wasn't available, you couldn't do certain things - and emergent c-sections can't be rescheduled and generally can't be transferred.
This is the reality. When my young daughter was emergently hospitalized, no one volunteered to take my ICU service days and I continued to work. People have their own lives and issues and it is unrealistic that their lives stop for yours. Likewise, the patients you treat don't just stop being sick. That being said, I had one colleague who offered to take a call so I could be there for my daughter one night (because I could give them a little heads up and payback the shift), but the reality is, I could have just as easily had to work and she could have been there by herself (though I would have checked on her frequently since she was in the same hospital I work). Do I wish that medicine allowed for more flexibility for emergent issues? Sure. But me and my family know that that isn't reality and if we run into problems, we each do what we have to to make it through. You just have to prioritize what is necessary versus what is desired.
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