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Being jealous is a sin.
They don't work and yet they have money. ****in nice.
I don't know, maybe you guys can relate. Lately I cannot get over the people in my family. Both sides have money and my age cohort consists of about 6-7 people. Out of us, I am the ONLY one who has gone to and completed college. As an MS1 working hard still, it bugs the hell out of me to see my cousins just given money to not get a job and do nothing with their lives... And it's like our parents who work for their money don't care that they are being mooched off of, and somehow I am the only one willing to work for my money.
What bugs me is that nobody my age in my family can even relate to my hard work. They all sit around and get nice cars, free rent... things are just given to them despite being in their 20s. Yet here I am working my ass off so that I can make money. It doesn't just stop at my age cohort either.. Even though my father went to college and has 3 degrees, he chooses to work for the govt in a position making probably $50K, while at the same time just built a new house completely solar powered, water heating floors, 3 stories, built on a very nice patch of land. Where does he get his money from? His dead dad.
So all of them have money but do nothing but mooch, most besides my father haven't even gone to college. How am I supposed to respect them? How do I even try to associate with them when their very methodology and outlook on life is in such stark opposition to how I live my life?
Anyone else have similar probs? Disgusted by lazy people?
imagine you have a car crash tomorrow, because you refused that new nice car that your family offered you.
Your cousins, driving their nice audis with ABS and stuff, arrived safely home.
They are devastated you died, one of them even drops his life of blow hookers and audis and applies for pre med. Some years later down the road he is a founder of a free clinic that has your name. He gives a speech at inaugural day about you being his inspiration for all that.
Would you then forgive him?
I've made peace with all this by just thinking that, if anything ever goes wrong on a plane and the flight attendant yells, "Is there a doctor on board!?" Imma stroll up there all casual like.
Yes, I have too rich parents too.Anyone else have similar probs?
No. Not when it comes to your career when you and only you have to deal with it. You should be doing this for yourself and not for others or you are in for years of disappointment.Because they're my family, my backbone since birth. Should I not want to seek some approval, some empathy from them?
Thank you. If you are going into this profession and feel like people should deify, or at the very least, respect you for your sacrifices that you went into the field of medicine, then PLEASE QUIT NOW. It hasn't been like this for decades, and we've finally entered the era in which physicians are being vilified by the public, media, health economists, and Ivory-tower doctor partisan hacks (who don't practice medicine) for healthcare costs. You are a greedy, selfish doctor who makes money and profits off of patients' suffering, and your job could easily be taken over by an NP or PA. As far as the public is concerned you can have your seat right next to the bankers.Listen, you are not a martyr, you are not sacrificing your life for others, and you are not wasting your 20's. Out of hundreds of thousands of students who start college wanting to be doctors, you're one of the lucky and determined few that made it through the weeding out process to get into med school. You are exactly where you decided you want to be, and you are doing exactly what you wanted to do in life. If you ever decide you want to change it and leave med school, you can.
Don't expect people to feel sorry for you and empathize with you. Especially not people with zero ambition that haven't worked a day in their life.
So true. Life is way too painful in seeing how much "easier" everyone else has it. It will eat you up inside. It's not worth it.Seriously? Get over it. Quit judging others for things you don't have. There are plenty of people who have it a hell of a lot worse than you who hate you because you have the means to get a college education and apply to medical school, let alone get in. It's time to grow up and pave your way in the world without having your eyes out for those who choose a different path.
Sounds kind of nouveau riche, not to insult the family. People from excellent families have a majority going to great schools and doing great things with bums being the exception. Anyway, just bring up your children with class and productivity.I don't know, maybe you guys can relate. Lately I cannot get over the people in my family. Both sides have money and my age cohort consists of about 6-7 people. Out of us, I am the ONLY one who has gone to and completed college. As an MS1 working hard still, it bugs the hell out of me to see my cousins just given money to not get a job and do nothing with their lives... And it's like our parents who work for their money don't care that they are being mooched off of, and somehow I am the only one willing to work for my money.
What bugs me is that nobody my age in my family can even relate to my hard work. They all sit around and get nice cars, free rent... things are just given to them despite being in their 20s. Yet here I am working my ass off so that I can make money. It doesn't just stop at my age cohort either.. Even though my father went to college and has 3 degrees, he chooses to work for the govt in a position making probably $50K, while at the same time just built a new house completely solar powered, water heating floors, 3 stories, built on a very nice patch of land. Where does he get his money from? His dead dad.
So all of them have money but do nothing but mooch, most besides my father haven't even gone to college. How am I supposed to respect them? How do I even try to associate with them when their very methodology and outlook on life is in such stark opposition to how I live my life?
Anyone else have similar probs? Disgusted by lazy people?
Come on, this is so unrealistic. There's no good reason why he'd drop the Audi in this scenario.