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Maybe I'm just confused with your verbiage because when I hear of hiring someone to help with kids I don't think of someone making lunch or cleaning. I agree with the other poster, my wife would kill me if I worked that much, and she'd be right to. You can get quality time with your kids by also having them help you make lunch, help clean up, etc. I'd say having 160 hours less a month at home gives a pretty good shot at quality time with the kids.Why not have someone help with the kids? It’s nice to have someone make the lunch while I play dolls with them. It’s nice to have someone pick up their toys while I put them down for a nap. It’s nice to have someone watch their sleep monitors while I walk the dog and my wife works out. It’s nice to have someone get the bottles ready while I read to the older ones.
You should try it. Imagine a life with no mundane activities and pure quality time. Yes, I miss some quality time but that is unavoidable in life.