Hi all,
Like many other bright-eyed and bushy tailed students, my girlfriend of four years has recently started med school. She attends a top 20 school and I am very proud of her for what she has accomplished.
Some background on myself- I'm a 25 year old hedge fund analyst who works 60-80 hours a week. I love what I do and I take great pleasure making institutions (including hospital systems) money. My job entails moving a lot of money around and meeting with some high profile corporate executives. It is very stressful at times. I live about an hour away from my girlfriend and will often commute to the city in which I work in the morning.
Since starting medical school, whenever I tell my girlfriend about a stressful day I've had she responds by saying, "how dare you make your job sound as stressful as a doctor's job," or "cool, not as hard of a day as a med student...," or "luckily for you there are no gunners where you work."
She tells me about how she had to spend 8 hours in class in a single day. 8 hours! I sometimes spend 14 hours at my desk pounding away at some cash flow model. Of course if I tell her this she gets angry.
I once made the mistake of telling her that being in school is nice- you have class 8-12pm and can go home and study for the rest of the day/work out if you want/relax if you want. She blew up and accused me of "belittling" the workload of the med school student.
I've been very accommodating of this attitude and I just let her do her thing. I assume most first year med students have this "I'm so baller" mentality for a little while and that it eventually goes away.
Anyone offer up any advice?
Thanks
Like many other bright-eyed and bushy tailed students, my girlfriend of four years has recently started med school. She attends a top 20 school and I am very proud of her for what she has accomplished.
Some background on myself- I'm a 25 year old hedge fund analyst who works 60-80 hours a week. I love what I do and I take great pleasure making institutions (including hospital systems) money. My job entails moving a lot of money around and meeting with some high profile corporate executives. It is very stressful at times. I live about an hour away from my girlfriend and will often commute to the city in which I work in the morning.
Since starting medical school, whenever I tell my girlfriend about a stressful day I've had she responds by saying, "how dare you make your job sound as stressful as a doctor's job," or "cool, not as hard of a day as a med student...," or "luckily for you there are no gunners where you work."
She tells me about how she had to spend 8 hours in class in a single day. 8 hours! I sometimes spend 14 hours at my desk pounding away at some cash flow model. Of course if I tell her this she gets angry.
I once made the mistake of telling her that being in school is nice- you have class 8-12pm and can go home and study for the rest of the day/work out if you want/relax if you want. She blew up and accused me of "belittling" the workload of the med school student.
I've been very accommodating of this attitude and I just let her do her thing. I assume most first year med students have this "I'm so baller" mentality for a little while and that it eventually goes away.
Anyone offer up any advice?
Thanks