my attending asked me to write my own letter of recommendation for my resdiency app, but I have no idea what one is supposed to look like. Any thoughts? thanks for your help.
Heh, I was in that situation when I applied to Med School. It sucks. I wrote what I thought was a glowing recommendation for myself, and when I gave it to the Professor, he responded, "I thought you were going to take this seriously."
Your best bet, I would say, is to take a look at some residency application books, and see what they have to say about it. They discuss what programs look for in a "good" letter, and some books even have handout and outlines to give to your letter writers to guide them when they write your letter.
"Iserson's Getting Into a Residency," by Kenneth Iserson is in its seventh edition now, and while I can't wholeheartedly recommend the book (a LOT of the information is outdated, they still talk at length about paper applications, etc) it does have a fairly detailed section on what goes into a LOR.
Their outline lists 5 elements that should go into a LOR:
1) Extent of writer's contact with student
2) Student's academic record
3) Student's medical abilities
4) Personal characteristics
5) Overall impression
(The book goes into much more detail, but I don't wanna get sued
😉 )
That should be a good enough guide to get you started. Just remember that no one ever taught your other letter writers how to write a letter either, and in as little as 4 short years, you may have to start writing letters for students as well.
Good luck!