When I was a freshman in college, the Admissions dean contacts me to help him do admissions interviews in my home city over the Christmas break. I went to a New England Catholic private mostly white regional university that is trying to become more national and diverse and I was from far away. So basically the dean is using local people to make the interviewees more comfortable, etc., and trying to put a really good image out there for the school in order to increase ethnic and geographical diversity. Great idea, and I was flattered to be asked to help out.
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So stupid me, what do I do a few days before the interviews? I let my fellow ROTC guys shave my head. Totally bald and slick.
🙂 It was cool for about 5 minutes.
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Then I go home for the holidays and meet the dean at the hotel where we are doing the interviews. He hasn't seen me in a while, so his eyes go a little wide, because when he had chosen me to represent the school, I had looked normal, not like the stupid idiot standing in the doorway.
The thing is, I'm a 6 ft 215 lb barrel-chested white guy of very German ancestry, so when I'm bald I look very, very mean
😡 when there is no expression on my face (basically, if I am not smiling I look like I am about to attack something

) even though I am actually just a big teddy bear in my personality
😍 . But basically I looked like a big Neo-Nazi handing out pamphlets and slogans for my Hitler University of Arian Supremacy. Not the best representative to be out there promoting diversity. I could tell the interviewees were really uncomfortable

, expecially the girls, even though I was asking "nice" questions and was otherwise dressed professionally

. I felt so stupid.
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He didn't say anything, but I apologized after the interviews for making myself, him, and the university look like a bunch of dumb-asses, and we never spoke again during my 4 years there even though I saw him frequently around campus. He probably thought I was just a stupid person, and possibly mean as well, and didn't want a piece of my steel toed jackboots. Definitely a big learning experience for me.
I guess what I'm trying to say is, don't judge a school by one interviewer, they may be having a bad hair day!!