Things that the OP never said include "professor owes me something, "it isn't fair" and "it isn't fine." Can you honestly say you wouldn't feel frustrated you missed a grade by .01%? I sure as **** would, and I think it's normal. Pretending everything must roll off you and never affect you is ludicrous.
True, but you do get over it. Hopefully. I take this thread for the reason it was posted--simply as a VENTING thread. So, cool, vent. Some of us can indeed relate, but we all seemed to have gotten over it. To me it is a bit ridiculous. But there are plenty of hardazzes in the world that would serve their students better by acts of encouragement.
It's really not the same thing as giving a kid .01% or > over the determined dose of medicine.
But I say, let the person vent and some of us will share, knowing there is are all sorts of ridiculousness in the world.
My other point is that is you are going to concentrate you efforts on doing solid A work, you have be on that and stay on that through the entire process. But life does happen, so all things considered, an A- isn't bad--in this situation, it's more on the annoying side, with the understanding that next one would have stay on that A all the way through.
And they wonder why pre-meds are neurotic. It's b/c of stuff like this. But Dr. Mike's point seems valid too.
I will have good interactions with my professors,
but I am not one to pucker up and kiss anyone's bottom--not saying anyone is here (but we know all know how these people operate and call it "networking."), and I am not one to stalk, hound, or even play subtle games in order to garner favor--some people are experts at playing these games, and indeed it can help them go far. Others of us don't really have the personality for it. Given that I had checked my scores and what was weighted and how, and given it was right before the holidays, I said, "It is as it is." I wasn't gonna chase the poor man down on his ski trip. I accepted it and moved on.
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@Eccesignum 's situation to me would have been a lot tougher to have rolling around in my mind, given that she sweated for an A, earned it, and the B was a typo or miswrite. But she had to wait to straighten it out, and she got accepted into MS, so, Hooray!