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Hello Everyone!
I am dating a first year resident so have started to read about the world of medicine. We are doing the long distance thing now and I have a very good professional job of my own. Although its always known the doctors are busy as hell but I don't think we both anticipated how challenging residency would be. He has been doing a great job with trying his best but i know it will take its toll eventually.
I am sure there are other couples out there whom one of you are not in medicine. So, what to do, accept the fact there are many lonely days ahead? Maybe if the guy was the one not in medicine, it would work better? Of course, long distance doesn't help either. I have been patient and have alot of capacity but maybe that is an unrealistic expectation as time goes by and the work never slows down.
Would love to get everyone's perspective. Thanks for reading!
I am dating a first year resident so have started to read about the world of medicine. We are doing the long distance thing now and I have a very good professional job of my own. Although its always known the doctors are busy as hell but I don't think we both anticipated how challenging residency would be. He has been doing a great job with trying his best but i know it will take its toll eventually.
I am sure there are other couples out there whom one of you are not in medicine. So, what to do, accept the fact there are many lonely days ahead? Maybe if the guy was the one not in medicine, it would work better? Of course, long distance doesn't help either. I have been patient and have alot of capacity but maybe that is an unrealistic expectation as time goes by and the work never slows down.
Would love to get everyone's perspective. Thanks for reading!