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Well first off I am a traditional college student, 19 finished freshman year.
Basically I need advice because I've lost three days of sleep and no solution to my somewhat unique problem. Here is my situation (long read):
I am the oldest of four sons my mother is a house wife, dad main provider I have a full scholarship to a 4 year university, unfortunately my father over the years of working has damaged a nerve in his leg and is now in chronic pain and is having trouble working. I'll be modest, we are poor and just getting by, and I worked hard for my scholarship so I'm not a burden on my parents.
Unfortunately with my father unable to work this has forced me to take over the family responsibility, I am an aspiring pre-med but lets face it by the time I get out of this process (years from now) I don't know where my family will stand it would be to selfish of me to say tough luck you're on your own.
So I thought I should become a nurse (RN), I get patient exposure while making a living, I'm compassionate and get to "help people". But I can't seem to let go of my dreams, what if I can't make it back on route later in life? What if I get busy or I no longer have the patience for scut work in pre-med. Even if I pushed through and became a doctor what if Obamas healthcare plan cut physician salaries to the point where the years invested in the process seems like a waste? I've been poor (really broke) my whole life I'd like to let my parents and brothers experience a comfortable lifestyle later on and help my folks retire.
Since I'm the first child (everyone knows the test child ) my brother is capitalizing on my mistakes and he too is a aspiring physician (in highschool planning on B.A - M.D program) where as I decided on a career much later.
Maybe he can help later? But I feel ashamed on being a male nurse, will anyone take me seriously? My brothers are laughing at me (ungratefull jerks ) when I mentioned the idea will everyone else do the same? I would also like to have a family of my own (as antisocial as I am ) but how will my kids or wife feel me being a male nurse? My father will push through a few years till I graduate but I need to know asap to change my classes for fall 2009.
If anyone has advice, websites, anything PM or post please I don't care how brutal it sounds I need solid advice you guys have wisdom impart it please. We only get one shot at life I'd like to do something right.
Basically I need advice because I've lost three days of sleep and no solution to my somewhat unique problem. Here is my situation (long read):
I am the oldest of four sons my mother is a house wife, dad main provider I have a full scholarship to a 4 year university, unfortunately my father over the years of working has damaged a nerve in his leg and is now in chronic pain and is having trouble working. I'll be modest, we are poor and just getting by, and I worked hard for my scholarship so I'm not a burden on my parents.
Unfortunately with my father unable to work this has forced me to take over the family responsibility, I am an aspiring pre-med but lets face it by the time I get out of this process (years from now) I don't know where my family will stand it would be to selfish of me to say tough luck you're on your own.
So I thought I should become a nurse (RN), I get patient exposure while making a living, I'm compassionate and get to "help people". But I can't seem to let go of my dreams, what if I can't make it back on route later in life? What if I get busy or I no longer have the patience for scut work in pre-med. Even if I pushed through and became a doctor what if Obamas healthcare plan cut physician salaries to the point where the years invested in the process seems like a waste? I've been poor (really broke) my whole life I'd like to let my parents and brothers experience a comfortable lifestyle later on and help my folks retire.
Since I'm the first child (everyone knows the test child ) my brother is capitalizing on my mistakes and he too is a aspiring physician (in highschool planning on B.A - M.D program) where as I decided on a career much later.
Maybe he can help later? But I feel ashamed on being a male nurse, will anyone take me seriously? My brothers are laughing at me (ungratefull jerks ) when I mentioned the idea will everyone else do the same? I would also like to have a family of my own (as antisocial as I am ) but how will my kids or wife feel me being a male nurse? My father will push through a few years till I graduate but I need to know asap to change my classes for fall 2009.
If anyone has advice, websites, anything PM or post please I don't care how brutal it sounds I need solid advice you guys have wisdom impart it please. We only get one shot at life I'd like to do something right.