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Uh, she doesn't HAVE tuition, so it's certainly not coming out of it.
yea, they're hoping you'll crank out a lot of research to make their institution look special.
Uh, she doesn't HAVE tuition, so it's certainly not coming out of it.
I'm sorry...did I just step into the twilight zone? Thank you notes are just nice and polite. Unless you FedEx'd the thing (which reeks of sucking up - gotta get it there before the committee meets), what kind of socially inept recluse is going to get bent out of shape upon receiving a thank you note?
i've had a few thank you cards returned to sender, especially ones sent to medical students. that might explain a bit of it.
So what if he received the thank-you note a few days after he wrote the applicant a bad review? Wouldn't he feel like a total jackassThe OP would most likely give you a better review if he/she received a thank you letter. I'll assume the OP is not alone and send my thank you letters.
So what if he received the thank-you note a few days after he wrote the applicant a bad review? Wouldn't he feel like a total jackass
The OP probably writes up the evaluation right after the interview, long before the thank you would arrive. I'd like to do interviews next fall, and I really won't care if someone sends me a thank you. Just be polite and thank me in person.The OP would most likely give you a better review if he/she received a thank you letter. I'll assume the OP is not alone and send my thank you letters.
i don't know what kind of crappy insurance you have, but the "salesmen" representing all of my insurance policies (homeowners, car, etc) send me not only a yearly christmas card, but also a card on my birthday.
thanks for clearing that upyea, they're hoping you'll crank out a lot of research to make their institution look special.
I got a thank-you PACKAGE when I bought my car. A few weeks after I drive off the lot, I get this box in the mail full of candy, a card, and a baloon thanking me for doing business with them. NO JOKE. It happens. And it made me like them more.
'Thanks for interviewing me, I learned so much about X organization and really feel like I would be a great fit there, let me know if I can provide any additional information, etc.'
So what if he received the thank-you note a few days after he wrote the applicant a bad review? Wouldn't he feel like a total jackass
I couldn't possibly see how interviewers would tailor their recommendations based on whether they received a thank-you note. Especially since (if what my interviewers told me is true) they write up their report w/in a day of the interview.
For the record, the people who are advocating the sending of thank you notes in this thread are doing so because they believe it is the courteous thing to do - not because they are trying to buy your vote. What an ass you are. I wish I had your address so I could send you a turd instead.For the record, my school interviews on wednesday afternoons, and evaluations are to be sent in by friday.
For the record, the people who are advocating the sending of thank you notes in this thread are doing so because they believe it is the courteous thing to do - not because they are trying to buy your vote. What an ass you are. I wish I had your address so I could send you a turd instead.
of course you hadn't actually read my posts... but yes, what a courteous post you had there. ...if people weren't doing it to buy votes, the debate on this thread simply wouldn't exist, and we wouldn't have a monthly "should I send a thank you note" thread.
On the contrary, I've sent thank you cards to each one of my interviewers. But I think it's ridiculous for interviewers to give someone a worse evaluation simply because they didn't receive a thank you note. I also don't think any actually do, for the simple reason that they need to turn in the evaluation before they would actually receive said thank you. That said, I did send thank you's for the slight chance that the interviewers would take it into account (it's best to hedge your bets, I guess 😉Unusual logic. You're saying that you wouldn't write a thank you note because you'd be concerned that your interviewer might feel like an ass after submitting an unfavorable evaluation of you post-interview? I'm confused as to the downside in this scenario.
Graduate programs do. My friend interviewed at 3-4 grad schools all around the country, and each school paid for her flights, hotel room, transportation, and now that she's accepted, she's got free tuition plus a $35,000 annual stipend. Med schools just don't love us the same way.
3)Most have an answer to "why do you want to be a doctor" but a few have said "Oh that's a good question...I haven't thought about it"😱
Question, how do you slyly get the email address or the university address of the interviewer during the interview? If you are unable to do so, how do you find out the email/address of the person and should u still send a thank you letter then?
don't interviewers get paid for this job? i didn't know they were doing it out of the kindness and love they had for me.
i don't even thank my own mother for doing my laundry and cooking me food so wtf would i thank some bum asking questions off a paper.
Even if they paid for it, it's still coming out of her tuition. Most grad programs don't get nearly the number of applicants as med schools do. If they paid for everyone's flights, the matriculants' tuition would be MUCH higher.
If one doesn't write a thank you card because of one's fear of making mistakes (grammatical, etc.) then why become a doctor??? 😕 A simple thank you is a simple task, unlike writing a 100-page essay. Just curious.
Never mind the thank you notes....
are people not AMAZED at this statement?????? 😕😕
If people are actually going into an interview saying "wow, i havent really thought about why i want to be a doctor" then my chances are looking pretty damn good right now !!
I mean seriously not everyone spends hours preparing on sdn, school websites and mock interviews.... but the least you can do is be able to explain why you want to be a doctor. otherwise what the hell are you doing at the interview....
wow... still amazed
So I interviewed for medical school about 2 years ago and I remember meeting with my advisor regarding what were the things I NEEDED (aka absolutely necessary) to prepare myself for interviews.
They included:
1)paper and pen/pencil
2)List of questions to ask anyone I came across about the medical school
3)Reason why I wanted to be a doctor
4)My research
5)My application
6)A Thank you card for the faculty interviewer or student...
Now that I am interviewing prospectives...I've noticed a few things that kind of throw me off...
1)No one has pencil or paper for me to give them my email address in case they have any questions
2)No one has questions. They kind of all just blankly stare at me
3)Most have an answer to "why do you want to be a doctor" but a few have said "Oh that's a good question...I haven't thought about it"😱
4) No one sends thank you cards/or emails!
The last one I am confounded by. I used to either mail my thank you card as I was walking out of the building, OR id rush home to get on the computer to email my interviewers back for their time and patience.... I've interviewed 10+ people now and NONE of them have sent a thank you. It also can't be just me because other interviewers are ALSO not getting any thank yous.
SO.....what is goin on?! Why are we sending potentially fantastic medical students out into the interview world so utterly unprepared.....? Im underwhelmed
Lesson of the day: Just shoot your interviewer a thank you email would be super nice 😀. Oh and know why you want to be a doctor.
I'm a little shocked by the brash dismissal of the potential impact of thank you notes, not to mention the good ole' fashioned common courtesy associated with sending them. Given the fact that an interviewer posted his/her opinion on the importance of thank you's, it's kind of funny that a bunch of premeds would then have the audacity to "explain" to the gatekeeper why they're really not all that important.
Interviewers send thank you's to interviewees? Hilarious... that's like my life insurance salesman expecting to get a thank you note from me after I buy a policy. Your interviewers (in most cases, as I understand it) are your advocates on the admissions committee. Regardless of when they make their decision on your application, it seems a bit short sided not to do everything in your power to ensure that they're in your corner. For a group that, in general, bemoans the seeming randomness of the admissions process, there seems to be a ubiquitous, irrational sense of intractibility when it comes to doing the small things to make yourself stand out. What do I know though? I'm just another member of the herd... a squirrel of an applicant scampering to find a nut 🙂
I believe that. Whhile verabalizing some of my answers for practice, I realized that the descriptions for activities were almost like my AMCAS descriptions and that my responses for some questions were from various secondaries that I had written. I guess it's a force of habit since you spent so long internalizing those answers.I'm a student interviewer for a med school and I noticed that some applicants regurgitate word for word things on their secondaries/applications...
Trust me, I actually do read them =)
In which case, you don't need to be polite?It never hurts to be polite. Every job interview ive ever had, ive sent thank you notes for (unless I was hired on the spot.)
I'm more or less apathetic about thank yous (kind of a N and P personality issue I guess), but if I got one like that I would be REALLY turned off. if you're going to do it, you thank the person for taking time out of their day and making the effort to be an interviewer (especially since most of the faculty have next to nothing to do with the school itself besides university affiliation), but to use it to further advertise yourself is a really insincere thing to do... MAJOR TURNOFF.
/for the record, my school interviews on wednesday afternoons, and evaluations are to be sent in by friday.
In which case, you don't need to be polite?
👍I can see reason to cry over thank you's if the interviewee doesnt mention it immediately after the interview. If no act of good eye contact and firm handshake is done at the end of the interview, then please by all means wail and lament about students being utterly unprepared.
Ok, on behalf of all your interviewed students Toxic, I say THANK YOU. with 2 thumbs up and one smiley.👍👍🙂. Your interview time is appreciated but SDN time, I think you should be studying. You have a lot more to gain instead of sobbing to frustrated and broke premeds about thank you letters.
I certainly hope you gave good reviews to students who have worked hard to deserve it. bcos if a review is ever done depending on a thank you note, may the gods strike down whoever that biased interviewer is.
I can see reason to cry over thank you's if the interviewee doesnt mention it immediately after the interview. If no act of good eye contact and firm handshake is done at the end of the interview, then please by all means wail and lament about students being utterly unprepared.
Ok, on behalf of all your interviewed students Toxic, I say THANK YOU. with 2 thumbs up and one smiley.👍👍🙂. Your interview time is appreciated but SDN time, I think you should be studying. You have a lot more to gain instead of sobbing to frustrated and broke premeds about thank you letters.
I certainly hope you gave good reviews to students who have worked hard to deserve it. bcos if a review is ever done depending on a thank you note, may the gods strike down whoever that biased interviewer is.
... mostly, interviewers are usually encouraged to write their interview review immediately after the interview, making the thank you letter worthless.