First and foremost, please don't let anyone here ever deter you from doing whatever you really feel you need to do.
My perspective on professional education has changed dramatically since my wife and I had children, and it is based on timing, not age, in my opinion.
Kids change so many things, of those, I think perspective and priority are paramount.
So - here's MY take...
Hello everyone this is my forst post here so bare with me. I have read a few of the posts here to try and find some answers or advise as to what to do but figured I would see what you all had to comment about my particular siuation. I am 27 yrs old amd I have 3 wonderful children (9, 5, 2)and their beautiful mother. I am currently enrolled in a Vocational Nursing program part-time at a provate school which does not transfer credits, while I work a full time job. I originally wanted to become a CRNA (nurse anethetist) and needed to still help support my family while doing so.
Holy Crap - you are busy.
My plan was to become an LVN so that I could work at night or on weekends in order to attain my BSN (since all RN programs seem to only be day time program). After that I would take a CRNA program.
Ok, here I want to pause and ask some questions. You are enrolled at an LVN program then get your BSN then apply to CRNA school? This is tough because you're talking about 3 steps and you haven't completed the first yet. Other questions = What do you do
now? Do you enjoy what you do? Is a BSN a possible alternative?
I know this would be a long and strenuous road but with the assistance of my partner, family and my determination it would certainly be attainable.
Yes, it is attainable and it would be strenuous. My question to YOU is: would this amount of stress and hardship be worth it to your family or to you?
I figured this would probably take about 8 years total but certainly be worth it.
Your oldest would be graduating high school... For 4 years that child will require intense parenting, and you'll be doing intense schoolwork.
Well I know seem to be looking into becoming an Anesthesiologist and am wondering if this is a feassable goal given my age and need to support my family.
Age should not be a factor in pursuing medicine. Your family, however, IS a huge factor.
I'm thinking that once I finish up my LVN course in about 18 mo. I would work through my BSN as I was originally thinking and then after words apply to MED School and then of course the residency where I would make some money.
A resident salary is about 45k(ish) depending on the program. Is that more or less than what you make now? Is it more or less than what you would make as a BSN?
Is it sage to assume that becoming an MD would really only be about 3 more years than CRNA. I think if this is the case then the earning potential far outweighs the waiting period. Another thing I have to decide is on is the work load. As a CRNA I could work 3 12 hr shifts and spend 4 days a week with my family and earn a decent living. As an MD would I have the opportunity to work less hours than lets say 60.
Anesthesia will take you 4 years of medical school and 3-4 years of residency - that is in addition to the years you spend in nursing.
So. 3 kids who love you and want you around. You, who love you and want a career - but want the career for the kids (or so the post leads me to believe) is left with this decision.
If it's earning potential then you can make great money as a nurse, AND you are instrumental to a patient's care. We NEED great nurses.
My fear, for you, is that you will miss your children growing up so that you may study and learn to be the professional you desire to be. I suggest the alternative of nursing, then perhaps nurse anesthetist later as you and your family see fit.
Children are more interested in
you than stuff. You are definitely driven to work hard and accomplish great things, but you don't need an MD or CNA for that. Start with a BSN, rock it - see how your patients react to great care (while making good money + seeing you kids) THEN decide on changing your career.
I'm not trying smash dreams here, but if I had my kids before medical school, there would be no medical school.
My opinion - best of luck.