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my bf and i have been together for over 6 years, although we attended different medical schools on opposide sides of the country. we applied/interviewed/ranked programs basically based on location so that we could finally be together, with the goal being that we would match close enough that we could live together- the main reason we applied in nyc (high number of programs in a physically small area). we are extremely lucky, and both matched in lower east side ... however we are finding out that we are not going to be able to live together, as both our programs, and im assuming all manhattan programs, require extensive documentation of us being in a "domestic partnership" - none of this documentation which we have, since we have been living on opposite sides of the US for four years (such as joint bank accounts, car ownership, etc). has anyone else found a way around these requirements? im pissed because our rank lists may have looked a little different if we had known ahead of time that we were going to have to get two separate apartments regardless. i just can't believe that im going to be a physician, paying nearly $1500/mo in rent, and i can't be trusted to say who im in a committed relationship with! i know we can just get our own apartment, but being in the resident housing would just be much easier, not to mention cheaper. anyone with any advice on how to circumnavigate these ridiculous rules would be most helpful.