I wish there was a way to truly inform dental students what oms residency is like. If it were possible, many of those struggling to decide between specialties would drop the idea of OMFS and be happier for it. Externships don’t even cut it, especially now that many are virtual. You may see a week of a program, but you don’t get any taste of what it’s like to have the pressure on you, persistent prolonged sleep deprivation, long stretches without food, no real break except for maybe one day off a week, being constantly belittled by attendings, etc. We have a few residents in our program who probably shouldn’t have chosen oms and they are miserable. Deep down miserable. I feel very bad for them. They are good people who’s lives have really taken a turn for the worse. They probably would have thrived in some other specialty. I’m all for personal responsibility, but it almost feels a bit unfair that they were sucked into this without a full picture of what it’s like, and unfortunately almost all incoming residents don’t truly understand what it will be like. There certainly is a dark side of residency that is hinted at but almost impossible to grasp until you are experiencing it.
If your goal of an island is strong enough to sustain you through 4-6 yrs of what would be considered a hostile work environment anywhere outside of medicine, then go for it.