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Plus, it being hot out means less clothing being worn. And THAT has its benefits 👍
I had a feeling someone would point this fact out... LOL This is true, but speaking from a female perspective... being forced to wear the same shorts and tank tops over and over again gets really boring. It is SO hot here most of the year that you can rarely wear jeans or nice pants, boots, long sleeves, sweaters, collared shirts, jackets, etc. I like wearing those things sometimes, but if the temp is over 50 degrees I just get too hot for some reason. Plus if you live someplace like Miami or south Florida in general you kind of get immune to the half naked people walking around everywhere. It's just normal... like when you see boobs on National Geographic or something. LOL
Hey, you know, we could do one of those '70s parties where they put the car keys in a big pot, and whoever's keys you pulled, you switched partners with them.. for the night. And in our case, it would just not be male-female, male-male AND female-female could work too!
Yeah buddy!
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Having to wear sweaters and hoodies all the time gets old
P4sci and his swinger's parties 😛
Just take a trip to Forever 21 then.
My wife has a different mini/shorts/sundress for every day of the summer months here, and they're all pretty much <$20.
😆 Well, GTA did base their game one time on the west coast and one radio station talked about swingers a whole bunch
Totally agree... I guess the grass is always greener on the other side 😛 I guess ideally I'd prefer somewhere with a little season change so there is some variety. Not always cold or always hot, but something in the middle.
😆 Well, GTA did base their game one time on the west coast and one radio station talked about swingers a whole bunch
Two GTA references in three days... nice lol
Yeah well, after 5 years of the same poontang over and over, a little variety would be nice.
C'mon phat, don't you think?
C'mon phat, don't you think?
I'm at 3.1 years.... so I can somewhat identify. We can add a manly movie like Training Day or something too!
Better question is who is the big spoon and who is the little spoon...
Dang why do I always catch these comments I make after it's too late... I always think, Oh yeah someone's going to call me on that with jokes... never fails...
3.1 years is definitely far enough out of the honeymoon phase to know the feeling. To be brutally honest, I can't see how people that've been married for 10, 15, 20 years or longer haven't had one extra-marital affair. Maybe they just don't really enjoy sex. Or the thrill of the chase...
This reminds me of an awesome discussion I had in a Genetics class. Somehow someone got on a tangent of whether Homo sapiens are "mate for life" creatures by definition or whether promiscuity is more our genetic modus operandi. Was a very interesting day...
And little spoon vs. big spoon? Vive la differance, my friend, who says we can't alternate spoonage!?
Edit: MYYYYY NIIIIIIIIIIII******AAAAAA.
One of the very few pop. culture references I know! =]
HA! Good call
I've often wondered about the whole monogomy aspect myself. Guess we'll see how the cookie crumbles, can't predict what life will be like that far down the road
I like their stuff... I will pretty much buy anything that catches my eye and is of ridiculous value. LOL I love shopping at those girl stores where you can buy 10 things for like, 100 dollars.
But yeah... um I'm at a little over 3 years in my relationship too... so it's basically like I am married!
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we meeeessssed you in off topic!... NOT. 😀
wow.... i completely agree though. hey did you meet a guy from my college @ your uofa interview last week? someone in the prepharmacy club told me their friend got an interview at uofa
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ME TOO👍
I LUVVV forever 21 & charlotte russe
I like their stuff... I will pretty much buy anything that catches my eye and is of ridiculous value. LOL I love shopping at those girl stores where you can buy 10 things for like, 100 dollars.
But yeah... um I'm at a little over 3 years in my relationship too... so it's basically like I am married!
No you're basically married when you're at each other's apartment every single day (literally)
I like their stuff... I will pretty much buy anything that catches my eye and is of ridiculous value. LOL I love shopping at those girl stores where you can buy 10 things for like, 100 dollars.
But yeah... um I'm at a little over 3 years in my relationship too... so it's basically like I am married!
Yea, we can't go NEAR the mall without heading into AE, Forever 21, and Gap (But we don't buy much @ Gap for obvious reasons).
I like Ralph Lauren Polo shirts and khakis... I am so used to wearing the same thing for 4 years that I have 3 Polo shirts (black, dark blue, green) that I rotate, and I rotate pants (black and brown) but that's the end of my stylistics. Tarryn is so much more stylish than I am, I feel so bad when we go out and the extent of my style is a polo and khakis. Or the other end of the spectrum, where I wear one of my 5 suits. So it's polo or suit. :/ but she doesn't care, so whatever!
And yeah, I'd say anything around 3+ years borders on marriage quality anyway. And while the sex can be good and spontaneous, the thrill of the chase is sorely missed. We both admit it, which is good, I think. Maybe not. LOL!
If you hang around with your guy friends for a few days on end I guarantee the graphic details get much worse than a few words like poontang thrown around here and there.
No you're basically married when you're at each other's apartment every single day (literally)
We live together. LOL Same apartment.
It is an interesting thought. My wife and I both have discussed it... The glut of research data suggests that introducing a novel partner, even briefly, can really strain it... but at the same time, it could be fun. Tough call, tough call.
If you hang around with your guy friends for a few days on end I guarantee the graphic details get much worse than a few words like poontang thrown around here and there.
It's even worse for women, it always comes down to the organ questions, no matter how far you try to deterr from it.
If you hang around with your guy friends for a few days on end I guarantee the graphic details get much worse than a few words like poontang thrown around here and there.
I never do that around girls.
Around other guys, it's a guy thing, so it seems normal.
Yea, but the day after you get that ring on your finger, the sex every day goes *POOF* lol
I would like to identify myself as a serial monogamist. hehe
The thrill of adventurous dating went away the day the doc looked at me and said, "you've got VD."
OH YEAH.If you hang around with your guy friends for a few days on end I guarantee the graphic details get much worse than a few words like poontang thrown around here and there.
suuure..... i highly doubt you even talk about those kinds of things with guys, you're too reserved
......what's sex?
Nawwwww, that isn't true. At least it wasn't for me... The only time we ever went more than one day (when we were together, so excluding deployments, FTXs, etc) was during her period. Still keep a good 5 days a week pace...
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I think you have more clothes than my boyfriend... he wears a wet suit everyday of his life. LOL Seriously though... he only wears khakis and either white or black shirts. He owns one pair of Armani jeans and two dress shirts that I forced him to buy so that he could experience South Beach when he first moved to Miami but he never wears them now.
I don't care either... I don't like pretty boys so that would annoy me if he took longer than a girl to get ready and took up closet space.
I think everyone misses the excitement of a new relationship whether they want to admit it or not, but I definitely think it's healthier to admit it! LOL
indeed.
Honesty counts...
Tarryn and I have both discussed it at length. Finding other people attractive is not bad, it's healthy and natural. I think a huge problem, predominantly among young couples our age (And younger) is a jealousy factor. "Are you checking that other girl/guy out??!?!" and it's a point of anxiety, fear, and anger or frustration... Which eventually strains the relationship.
It is my belief that, for a marriage to last, and last for intrinsic reasons (Not for finances or "for the children"), that almost complete honesty is required. Full disclosure of all big stuff, which includes feelings of finding other people attractive, flirting with other people, etc. I think it allows for a lot of freedom/mobility and flirting with other people (at school, work, etc) for both of us allows us to keep some of that excitement of single life without all the bologna.
Perhaps it's an odd or unique perspective but hey, I'm a really unique and quite odd individual. You kind of have to be to volunteer to play target practice for Al-Qaeda.
Tarryn and I have both discussed it at length. Finding other people attractive is not bad, it's healthy and natural. I think a huge problem, predominantly among young couples our age (And younger) is a jealousy factor. "Are you checking that other girl/guy out??!?!" and it's a point of anxiety, fear, and anger or frustration... Which eventually strains the relationship.
It is my belief that, for a marriage to last, and last for intrinsic reasons (Not for finances or "for the children"), that almost complete honesty is required. Full disclosure of all big stuff, which includes feelings of finding other people attractive, flirting with other people, etc. I think it allows for a lot of freedom/mobility and flirting with other people (at school, work, etc) for both of us allows us to keep some of that excitement of single life without all the bologna.
Perhaps it's an odd or unique perspective but hey, I'm a really unique and quite odd individual. You kind of have to be to volunteer to play target practice for Al-Qaeda.
I don't really want to get married... I think my relationships will work out if they're meant to be... if not then the separation is a heck of a lot cheaper. LOL
Hehe, we are obviously talking about different things, I meant adventurous - as in going to dates with new people, non sexual, and then not worrying about seeing them again. Just going out to have fun - like to a book reading, grab a lunch, see some kind of show or seminar, cook food.
I meet and like very very few people to ever consider dating them maybe like 1 person per year or every 2 years, but I don't see anything wrong with going out with like 5-6 guys a month, doing some of the activities mentioned above and to not talking to them again. I don't think they may be happy, but that's life.
Ah, see, for me (And I speak for 99.99% of males of course), dating is another way of saying "paying for sex with someone other than a prostitute."
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Is this really where this thread has gone?
You chose THAT post to do that stupid emoticon?
There were a bunch of better ones.
Oh, edit: Prude.
Nicole- I recall someone saying they were from your school, but I didn't talk to him. If you talk to him, just ask him if her remembers the girl with long curly hair who Dr. Tong teased about going to Arizona State. 🙂
As for the swingers discussion, I think most people would agree that the 3 and 7 year itches are very real. Adding in a 3rd party can certainly spice things up, though.
At almost four years in my relationship, I've only wanted to stray one time and I was extremely inebriated. Thankfully, I was brought back to my senses post-hangover. Drinking is bad mmmmkay.
As for the swingers discussion, I think most people would agree that the 3 and 7 year itches are very real. Adding in a 3rd party can certainly spice things up, though.
At almost four years in my relationship, I've only wanted to stray one time and I was extremely inebriated. Thankfully, I was brought back to my senses post-hangover. Drinking is bad mmmmkay.
I happen to like that emoticon thank you very much. And I'm no prude.. maybe if you're avatar was a picture of your wife I wouldn't mind quite as much. It's all about the mental images you know.
Unless she insists on paying (sometimes)
I actually pay all the time, haven't been a time where I didn't pay once in the past several years.
Valentine's day last year: I left my wallet at home, and bf refused to pay, so I left the restaurant and went to my bank to withdraw money in person while he was at a resto waiting for me. He was not a keeper.
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oh sweet! I'm actually pleasantly surprised ANYONE from my school got an interview...... i haven't met many true go for the gold prepharmers here so when I heard that I was like 😱
I actually pay all the time, haven't been a time where I didn't pay once in the past several years.
Valentine's day last year: I left my wallet at home, and bf refused to pay, so I left the restaurant and went to my bank to withdraw money in person while he was at a resto waiting for me. He was not a keeper.
😱 Was he really poor?
What.THE.Hell.I actually pay all the time, haven't been a time where I didn't pay once in the past several years.
Valentine's day last year: I left my wallet at home, and bf refused to pay, so I left the restaurant and went to my bank to withdraw money in person while he was at a resto waiting for me. He was not a keeper.
If he refused to pay I'd walk out... he'd be washing dishes to pay for that dinner b/c I'd order one of everything off the menu just for that.....
Some guys are so vile.
You seem WAY too nice, you should let guys treat YOU, not the other way around. 🙁
Testing a new avatar just for UNC.
that's better. Avatar = too small. =/
that's better. Avatar = too small. =/
I agree... I am the same way... I like meeting new people and hanging out together, but I rarely find someone who I like enough to devote more than that to. I think that's why when I am in a relationship they tend to last a long time. I make it clear from the start when I'm not interested in a certain way... and I don't expect them to pay for me or take me out unless I really do like them... so that solves the problem of anyone wasting their time or money... They might not still be happy but at least they still have that 50 bucks for the SC. Kidding!
