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You can still be involved if your kid goes to a private school.
When my kids were in a public elementary & middle school, the public middle school here lost its accreditation. Teachers were great. Our kids did great. We left our kids there. Apparently when 50% of the student body is living with a single parent/grandparent or doesn't get breakfast 3 days out of the week, test scores suffer. Go figure. But even the most disadvantaged 8-year-old can only be a little disruptive ... no one at our school even
handed out ghost peppers in the cafeteria, which appears to me to be the new high-water mark for middle school disruptive awesomeness.
Now that they're in high school, we pay for a private school. Because now those 8-year-old mildly disruptive kids have grown up to be teenagers who think the public high school is a gladiator academy.