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so yeah, my manicure/pedicure looks damn good!!! I look all fluffed and folded. Got a new skirt today too. Retail therapy always helps. That plus a gin and gin.
 
TPS report said:
so yeah, my manicure/pedicure looks damn good!!! I look all fluffed and folded. Got a new skirt today too. Retail therapy always helps. That plus a gin and gin.
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Hahah! I want retail therapy.

Sigh...maybe after I get the money back from the car dealership that ripped me off.

Yeah, no retail therapy this year.
 
my phone is ringing...it's the new boy! I'm gonna screen. Can't be TOO available.
 
pshaaa. yeah, boys need to "chase." Otherwise they get bored. Besides, boys are the ones who started these Games. I have yet to meet a guy who was straight forward and direct.

I get impatient too. I can do the 'hard to get thing' for like a week, then I get all ADD and wanna have what I wanna have.

should I call him back?! hmm. maybe a poll is in order?


((quietly hoping to not screw up this potential relationship by playing stoopid games and such))
 
when I get to 100 posts, I'll feel like a real Dhock-tor,
 
Apollyon said:
I don't want you to take it the wrong way, but, it is a not-so-mature way of dealing with people. Or, in other words, in 5 years or so, you will sooo NOT agree anymore.
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I'm not going to convince you of my perspective, so I'm not going to try. As I said - I'm bad at it, but I generally don't consider it "game-playing" more like "tempering my enthusiasm."

I once asked my mom WHY I tend to dislike any guy who really chases me and she explained it like this: when we are getting into a relationship we don't want to feel like the other person wants just anyone in their life (translation: we don't want to think they are desperate). I want to feel like *I* am someone special to them and there is a reason that they want to spend time with me. When a guy won't leave me alone I tend to get the feeling that it is more the idea of "having someone" that he likes, not really anything specific to me.

I'm sure you disagree 🙂, and that is your prerogative.
 
holy crap. where do all my cell phone minutes go? I am almost maxed out and I still have 2 weeks in my billing cycle. ?!! massive FFF-bomb attack.

I'm going to have to be geto and just text message people for the next 2 weeks, that or call them after 9. SHEEEEET, I hate The Cell Phone Man,
 
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holy crap. where do all my cell phone minutes go? I am almost maxed out and I still have 2 weeks in my billing cycle. ?!! massive FFF-bomb attack.

I'm going to have to be geto and just text message people for the next 2 weeks, that or call them after 9. SHEEEEET, I hate The Cell Phone Man,
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Gotta love the family plan 🙂. We have like 2000 minutes for the four of us (me, mom, dad, sis)
 
socuteMD said:
I once asked my mom WHY I tend to dislike any guy who really chases me


I want to feel like *I* am someone special to them and there is a reason that they want to spend time with me. When a guy won't leave me alone I tend to get the feeling that it is more the idea of "having someone" that he likes, not really anything specific to me.

I'm sure you disagree 🙂, and that is your prerogative.
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I can't reconcile this: a guy really chases you - you don't like, BUT, that is NOT a reason to spend time with you? Someone really chasing you does NOT make you feel special? As long as you think that the only reason a guy REALLY chases you is because he wants "anyone" - and not you specifically, because he has fallen "head over heels", is "into you", likes you, and wants more of you - well, continue your game playing!
 
Apollyon said:
I can't reconcile this: a guy really chases you - you don't like, BUT, that is NOT a reason to spend time with you? Someone really chasing you does NOT make you feel special? As long as you think that the only reason a guy REALLY chases you is because he wants "anyone" - and not you specifically, because he has fallen "head over heels", is "into you", likes you, and wants more of you - well, continue your game playing!
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I didn't express myself well, but yes, that's often what it feels like when a guy is all over me. I'd rather things start a bit more slowly, and frankly given my life right now slowly is all I can handle (assuming I can handle anything, which I have yet to prove while in medical school) and thus anybody who seems clingy or needy or too available sends up warning flares.
 
for the record, I like it when a guy chases me. I also like alpha male types. There's cognitive dissonance because in the venn diagram of men, those two species really don't overlap.

so, I rationalize in my mind that I like the bad boy alphas (who treat me not so good), but the good boy sensitive chasers are better for me.

but I still want an alpha!
 
Still have some studying to do though.
 
Does anyone else notice how the post number can stay the same for 4 or 5 posts in a row?
 
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holy crap. where do all my cell phone minutes go? I am almost maxed out and I still have 2 weeks in my billing cycle. ?!! massive FFF-bomb attack.

I'm going to have to be geto and just text message people for the next 2 weeks, that or call them after 9. SHEEEEET, I hate The Cell Phone Man,
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I ran into that dilemma last month, but I had to give a few people directions that were coming into town, so I had to go over. Definitely didn't like that phone bill.
 
pad pad paddington bear

just came back from my run. mmmm mmm good. gotta love those endorphins. if only this could last longer than 20 minutes.

I need a snack
 
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pad pad paddington bear

just came back from my run. mmmm mmm good. gotta love those endorphins. if only this could last longer than 20 minutes.

I need a snack
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I am pretty high energy, but your posts exhaust me!!!
 
OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH crap.

Here comes the bronchitis.

🙁
 
As I said before: I suck at the games.

However, after my mom and my sister read this book, I couldn't resist. It's scarily true.
 
I'm sure all y'all will have something to say about it, but I wouldn't knock it until you've at least read the first chapter.
 
TPS report said:
when I get to 100 posts, I'll feel like a real Dhock-tor,
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No, when you finish residency you'll feel like a real Dhock-tor.

Or not. At least then you'll have to sit for the licensing exam. Which means in the real world you'll be considered a board accredited Dhock-tor... and that's probably worse!!
 
nah im going into work in 2 hours.. no drinkin yo..
 
"Dr. Fetus", sounds like a James Bond villain don't it?
 
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