Example: guy with a college degree who makes decent money (not huge sums, but more than enough to live on), lives in a nice area (looking for permanent place there), and has a job he likes ALOT that has a ton of growth potential.
My recent conversations with said boy:
"So, my boss messed with the database (owned by said boss) and screwed up some stuff. I lost a ton of data and my bosses are mad that I hadn't backed it up. I'm getting blamed for screwing up when it's really my boss who screwed up the database. Well, yeah, except I hadn't backed it up, which happens to be in my JOB DESCRIPTION"
Boo-f-ing-hoo. You screwed up. Deal with it. Learn from it. It's YOUR fault - no one else's.