okay okay thanks guys and thanks for the patience. sorry for running in circles- i'm def driving myself crazy with this decision! i feel like i got enough info on PBL. good thing the decision deadline is coming up it'll be nice to have made a decision finally.
So from what I can recall from this conversation, let me see if I can summarize:
1. You think you'll learn better PBL because it forces you to look-up info and put in extra effort so maybe you'll commit it to memory.
2. Your parents are paying for a large portion of your education, so cost is less of a concern to you.
3. You don't like the town that Cornell is in.
4. Your family wants you to pick Penn because it's closer to them.
My assessment:
1. Unless you're the kid who loves to look stuff up for fun, after you've looked up stuff until your head hurts, I wouldn't make this part of your decision.
2. Don't underestimate cost. Taking money from them now may seem like they are supporting you, but when you get older you will wish you could have done your education cheaper and saved their money, so they could retire earlier and stress less. You'll realize that ultimately it doesn't matter if your DVM says Cornell or Penn and that no one will know you spent X number of more dollars to get it.
3. You're a vet student...you have no life. It doesn't matter what town you are in, you aren't there to party.
4. This is the only one I can't fault you for. I actually took a new job/relocated prior to my application so I could be on same side of the country as my family. I'm still at double digit drive away, but when they retire I'll be about 4-5 hours away. Still far, but short enough to do on a long weekend. I also had a network established in the town of the school I applied prior to my move from time I lived out this way. That network has already proved to be invaluable. That network though is 20+ strong and 10-30 min from school, not "nearby" by a number of hours. If family is going to be a 3 hour drive, I would think you'll find yourself going home less than you think, though I could be wrong. My brother (med school) doesn't spend very much time going to see my parents and he lives <30 min away. He's just extremely busy. If family being close is super important and they are footing the bill I'd have a nice long talk with them about what that extra money means for
them.
You will learn to love and hate either school. You'll make the most out of either one. It's what you put in. Ultimately make the decision that the FUTURE you can live with. Good Luck!