Disclaimer: This isn't an issue I'm actually worried about as of now.
I'm realizing that med students, residents, and physicians can have a difficult time having normal relationships and raising families. A lot of people I know who are in med school or are currently physicians keep telling me to just wait until I get into med school to date. Actually one friend told me specifically not to date or deal with guys for my first 2 years (He was partnered and also got married during med school). I don't know why they think, I'll have a better chance of dating in med-school versus dating outside of being a med-student; maybe someone can chime in? Perhaps, once you are a med student, you become more highly-desired to possible partners? It seems the case for actual physicians.
Anyways, how well do physician-physician relationships work long-term? Can you raise a family easily? I can't imagine two doctors who work two surgical specialties could really balance work-life and raise a normal family. Perhaps both would need to work in family-friendly specialties, or one of the spouses would need to work only part-time? Live-in Nanny? Live-in grandma/grandpa?
However, one would also think that since both spouses are interested in medicine that the common ground would be nice. Of course there are other factors, like personality, chemistry, sex-life, monogamy/polygamy, morals, values, falling out of love, fighting, stress, one of the partners gets fat/unattractive, etc...
I'm realizing that med students, residents, and physicians can have a difficult time having normal relationships and raising families. A lot of people I know who are in med school or are currently physicians keep telling me to just wait until I get into med school to date. Actually one friend told me specifically not to date or deal with guys for my first 2 years (He was partnered and also got married during med school). I don't know why they think, I'll have a better chance of dating in med-school versus dating outside of being a med-student; maybe someone can chime in? Perhaps, once you are a med student, you become more highly-desired to possible partners? It seems the case for actual physicians.
Anyways, how well do physician-physician relationships work long-term? Can you raise a family easily? I can't imagine two doctors who work two surgical specialties could really balance work-life and raise a normal family. Perhaps both would need to work in family-friendly specialties, or one of the spouses would need to work only part-time? Live-in Nanny? Live-in grandma/grandpa?
However, one would also think that since both spouses are interested in medicine that the common ground would be nice. Of course there are other factors, like personality, chemistry, sex-life, monogamy/polygamy, morals, values, falling out of love, fighting, stress, one of the partners gets fat/unattractive, etc...