I would have said don't worry about it a few months ago, but all the recent test takers continue to report that seemingly obscure topics tend to pop up.
I tend to just remember that any modulus is just some sort of Stress/Strain, and since Stress=Pressure, I substitute F/A into the numerator.
Honestly, I generally just use unit analysis to solve these, but since force is a vector, you can differentiate between Young's mod and Shear mod, by whether or not the force applied is perpendicular or parallel to the area. I think it is easiest to understand Shear by understanding how it differs from Young's:
Young's
Clearly, if you are applying a perpendicular force, say tugging on a piece of laffy taffy, the length will deform, e.g. get longer than the original laffy taffy. (This is Young's). Although you would generally see this in a cable holding up an elevator on a passage, the analogy still holds. The "area" having a force applied in this case are the "tips of the taffy" and the force is "normal" to the tips.
Shear
Say, instead of tugging on a piece of taffy, you put an empty cardboard box on the ground. Then some rabid dog, capable of defying the force of gravity, jumps over the box, such that all of his motion is in the horizontal direction. If the dog hits the top of the box, all of his force applied will be parallel to the top of the box.
The dog is not only abnormal, because he is rabid, but the force he applies is not "normal" or perpendicular to the surface of the box. In fact, the force he applies is parallel. It is kind of like he is skimming the surface, as opposed to "tugging the taffy". The deformation (the strain) will reflect this difference. So, whereas tugging the taffy caused a length deformation (deltaL/L), the dog will cause a deformation (delta x/h), which is just another way of saying: How much the dog moved the top of the box in the horizontal direction / height of the box.
Sorry this wasn't brief, but I am avoiding studying.

If anyone notices any errors in my logic, please point it out, because I am explaining this just as much for my benefit as the OP's.