I posted this in my first post but apparently that's the wrong spot so I will just put it here.
Hi everyone!
I'm 29 (30 in a month), I was barely homeschooled but I made myself get a GED in 2010. I never really had any direction in life and have done a start stop thing with college and I've got a few W grades due to my stupid self quitting when I felt things weren't going as well as I had hoped. But about 3 years ago I got the desire to become a doctor, I generally can't get things out of my head until I do it but obviously this is huge. I've always changed my mind a lot but I've recently developed something along the line of either BPD or bipolar (still waiting to get tested but the doctor suggested it). It's like a fight with myself in my mind at the slightest upsetting thing. I'm fighting myself all the time because I want to be useful and do something better with my life.
In addition to that crap, my circumstances don't make it any easier. I'm a military spouse and a mother of 2 young kids (3 and almost 7), I have no degree at all to speak of. So we move every few years and the fight with myself make it harder (which my husband helps with in addition to him not letting me quit when I normally would). I have the desire, it's there, I don't care about money (other than wanting to be smart with it). Some days I feel like I can do anything and everything is great, other days I don't see any hope for it and why even try. Is there anyone who has or is going through something like this? I have only just restarted college but it's only one class (I'm hoping to work my way up to more classes). I don't know if this is going to be something I will even be able to handle I just know I want to, which I know doesn't work out for everyone just because they want it.
I'm not sure exactly what I'm hoping for here, but my point of view of what I can do keeps changing...and it may just not be a good idea for me period, but is there anyone that can give me a little bit of guidance? Reality check maybe? Odds or encouragement?
Hi everyone!
I'm 29 (30 in a month), I was barely homeschooled but I made myself get a GED in 2010. I never really had any direction in life and have done a start stop thing with college and I've got a few W grades due to my stupid self quitting when I felt things weren't going as well as I had hoped. But about 3 years ago I got the desire to become a doctor, I generally can't get things out of my head until I do it but obviously this is huge. I've always changed my mind a lot but I've recently developed something along the line of either BPD or bipolar (still waiting to get tested but the doctor suggested it). It's like a fight with myself in my mind at the slightest upsetting thing. I'm fighting myself all the time because I want to be useful and do something better with my life.
In addition to that crap, my circumstances don't make it any easier. I'm a military spouse and a mother of 2 young kids (3 and almost 7), I have no degree at all to speak of. So we move every few years and the fight with myself make it harder (which my husband helps with in addition to him not letting me quit when I normally would). I have the desire, it's there, I don't care about money (other than wanting to be smart with it). Some days I feel like I can do anything and everything is great, other days I don't see any hope for it and why even try. Is there anyone who has or is going through something like this? I have only just restarted college but it's only one class (I'm hoping to work my way up to more classes). I don't know if this is going to be something I will even be able to handle I just know I want to, which I know doesn't work out for everyone just because they want it.
I'm not sure exactly what I'm hoping for here, but my point of view of what I can do keeps changing...and it may just not be a good idea for me period, but is there anyone that can give me a little bit of guidance? Reality check maybe? Odds or encouragement?