Tell me about something you've done that makes you cringe to remember it.
If you could have one superpower, what would it be, and why? (Answers related to medicine not allowed).
Are you still friends with all your exes? Why or why not?
If you could re-live one day in your life, without changing anything, what day would it be?
(Oh man, I could go on and on....)
I liked these, so I'm going to answer them:
Something that made me cringe to look back on - my wedding vows. For the better part of my life I've been a writer and I've always been incredibly good at coming up with something to say on the spot. My husband challenged me to do that instead of practicing my vows for our wedding, and I completely choked, stuttering and stammering like an idiot in front of my friends and family. I wish I could go back and do it over.
I would have the power of teleportation (or apparation, as it's called in Harry Potter). The thing that I miss most in my life is seeing people I love because I'm too far away. One of the things I struggle with is not being there to help friends and family when they need me, and my kids growing up far away from our families and friends from home. I wish that weren't the case. If I could apparate, it wouldn't be.
I am only friends with one of my exes, and it's because we were always better as friends versus being in a relationship. The rest? I grew very much apart from them, and even if I wanted to we don't have enough common ground to sustain friendships. The one that I am friends with has been friends with me for so long that to not be friends seems weird. He's friends with my husband, and I'm friends with his wife. It just kind of happened that way and it works well for us.
I have control issues in my personal life. If I go back in time to re-live even one of my most favorite memories, I don't know that I could do it without fixing my mistakes. I have a deep-seated need to fix things. If I were guaranteed to be unable to change that day, I would want to relive the day that I went on my first date with my husband. I knew then he was the one, and I'd love to be able to relive those feelings; our love has changed and grown over the years, but there's nothing quite like that first rush of falling love.