I realize what I’m about to say is very much an exception to the norm but it’s my personal family experience so I find it applicable. My father grew up poor with a mother who was a single mom with two young children in a new city where she had ZERO support system. She worked in insurance sales which was very much a man’s business at the time. My dad recounts stories of him and my grandma sitting in the kitchen crying because they barely had enough to eat. They had it rough and the ONLY reason they got out of that situation was because my grandma refused to be a victim. She worked 14+ hour days to support her children all the while cultivating relationships around this new city and eventually started her own insurance sales company. After 30+ years of hard hard work she sold it and retired a very well off woman. My father who has no college degree started his own company from the ground and without my mother’s income we would have had no income to live off. Again, following the example set by my grandma and the support of my mom, my father worked long long hours (still does) to grow his company into something that is now very prosperous. There were times where it looked like the company would go under but he refused to quit. He wasn’t going to be a victim.
So I’m sorry, but I have very little sympathy for those who cry woe is me. I haven’t had to struggle the way my dad and Grandma did, but I know what they endured to put me in a position to succeed. Not all those who grow up poor have the will power to get themselves out of their situation true and likely my family’s story involved a bit of luck where others haven’t had it. But it doesn’t change that what is really required is hard hard work and sacrifice.
Rant over.
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