Hi, I saw no one replied to you, so I thought I'd give my two cents.
You should apply.
And that analogy is silly...I mean if getting into med school is figuratively the "second date" then what your counselor is basically telling you is don't apply, ever. That's garbage. You can't wait until your scores look "perfect" because they never will.
On the other hand, don't just slack off this year. Do whatever you can, ie extra classes, research, more volunteering, whatever is appropriate in your case, to make you look like a better applicant next year if you don't get in this time.
Basically what I'm saying is, based on the info you gave, I don't think it is a bad idea to apply this cycle.