Paul's online math notes, Khan Academy, Visual Calculus and your calculus textbook are the go to resources to help you dominate calculus (both single and multivariate).
Regarding tests of convergence, I like to think of them in terms of a flowchart or some methodical approach like the following:
1. Treat the series as a sequence and see how the nth term fares at infinity. If the limit of the sequence ends up being anything but 0, the series diverges. So if i have a series like:
1/2 + 2/3 + 3/4 + 4/5 + ... n/(n+1), as n approaches infinity, the limit is 1, so the series diverges. Use this Divergence Test first to quickly determine if the series diverges.
2. If the limit of the sequence is 0, you need to use something else. Now, if you see a series that's alternating like:
1 - 1/2 + 1/3 - 1/4 + 1/5 ... you should use the Alternating Series Test. This includes seried having trig functions since they alternate signs. The test is simple: you treat the series as if all the terms are positive. If the limit of the sequence is 0 and the terms are decreasing, the series converges.
You can also use the Ratio and Root Tests for alternating series since they take the absolute value of the sequence terms.
3. To decide what other tests of convergence to use, I would use the Integral Test if you are dealing with a simple, decreasing sequence that can be easily integrated. Otherwise, you would have to compare a difficult series with a much simpler series that has a known convergence/divergence (Direct Comparison/Limit Comparison Tests)
4. And finally, if you are dealing with factorials, use the Ratio Test for quick calculation and make sure the result doesn't end up equal to 1 (test fails). And use the Root Test if you are dealing with complex exponential functions like n^n terms.
A lot of this is practice. You can read more here:
http://tutorial.math.lamar.edu/Classes/CalcII/SeriesStrategy.aspx
Hope this helps and good luck with the final