Random non-MCAT and only peripherally related to the MCAT thread - Part 3

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3rd time is a charm! 🙂 Welcome to the best thread on SDN: The Random Non-MCAT thread--PART 3!

This is a place to chill and talk about anything besides the MCAT. 😎



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Nikki2002 said:
well u don't have to go cheap but tiffany is the other extreme
completely. Also you might want her input if she wants a matching band. Talk to her parents if you want it to be acomplete surprise.

Also those last two links I sent you you can "create" your own ring and also look at various pricing for diamonds. I used that site to figure out what our budget would be. The band really is quite expensive!
 
one of my friends used his girl's great grandmother's ring. it had to be resized, but its the sentiment that counts... and the ring is soooooooooooooooooo hawt.
 
ironmanf14 said:
ok, sweeeeet. I was hoping for this kind of response :laugh:

My girlfriend is not materialistic in the slightest sense, but I was under the impression that if I were to get a cheap ring, she might not like it.

Thanks for the input 🙂
I think my ring should be appraised for maybe $1200, but we got the stone from a friend of his mom who was selling her jewelry. It was maybe 6-700 for the 5 stone jewelery.

If she is disappointed (which if she is I'll kick her ass) you can gently reminder her this is just the start of your relationship and once you get settle there are always 5/10/15/20/25 year anniversary rocks 😀
 
mshheaddoc said:
completely. Also you might want her input if she wants a matching band. Talk to her parents if you want it to be acomplete surprise.

Also those last two links I sent you you can "create" your own ring and also look at various pricing for diamonds. I used that site to figure out what our budget would be. The band really is quite expensive!

Thanks a lot!

I am going to stay away from Tiffany's. I actually thought it was a "standard" jewelry company (that just shows you how dumb I am about this)
 
Once you really start looking I iknow alot of my friends went down to jewelers row in philly and NY to see what the prices are. And if you know any jewelers maybe they can help you out. You can always ask your mom for help if its overwhelming. Those sites should give you an idea what to look for, now you just have to find it.
 
lilithny said:
IM, did/are you going to ask her parents for permission? it's old fashioned, i know, but it think its nice

I am for sure!

They already really like me, but I want to win them over for good 🙂

I am also going to try to use them for sizing information
 
mshheaddoc said:
Once you really start looking I iknow alot of my friends went down to jewelers row in philly and NY to see what the prices are. And if you know any jewelers maybe they can help you out. You can always ask your mom for help if its overwhelming. Those sites should give you an idea what to look for, now you just have to find it.

I was going to ask my mom, but I think in a few months. I need random information first :laugh:
 
hmmm... my parents wouldn't be good with that... since i never wear rings 🙁

maybe i should try one on and let them know
 
Ok i can't read any sad stories of pets. I just came across a journal of someone who was at a family party when their family pet got hit right in front of them. 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 Sobbing my eyes out. I hate sad stories.

Ok i have to get back to the lab.

good luck ironman and you have us for advice 🙂
 
i always feel guilty when i skip orgo lecture. the guy's a good teacher, but i don't want to go. and i need a letter from this dude 🙁

rarrrr
 
ironmanf14 said:
Hey, I have a question for the married lady randoms (any other comments also appreciated)

What is an acceptable price for an engagement ring? Something that is quality and nice, but something that is within a poor medical student range. I really don't want to go cheap-ass because I know it is important. But I don't know if I can handle something upwards of $10,000.

I have no idea whats quality and whats not.

Mine was nowhere near $10K and I love it.
 
mshheaddoc said:
Ok i can't read any sad stories of pets. I just came across a journal of someone who was at a family party when their family pet got hit right in front of them. 🙁 🙁 🙁 🙁 Sobbing my eyes out. I hate sad stories.

Ok i have to get back to the lab.

good luck ironman and you have us for advice 🙂

I hate those too. I am glued to "Animal Precinct" on Animal Planet, but I can hardly watch it sometimes.

Thanks again everyone for the advice, I will let you know how it goes
 
for my grandparents 50th anniversary... they got themselves 3 carat matching rings

they're more bling than some wannabe rappers i think
 
MollyMalone said:
Interesting article on medmal reform:

Slate

Reducing the number of malpractice cases would be fantastic, but I doubt that the Democrats can really say they cornered the market on this idea. Who DOESN'T want malpractice rates to go down???? the amount of the awards for reimbursement are ridiculous, especially for the more frivolous cases. And, another reality is that if and/or when malpractice rates go down, the cases that do award will have a significantly higher award.

Unfortunately the study that the article cites is from cases 20 years ago. A current study would be more appropriate, especially to find out what kind of errors are made.

I will forever be against a Hillarycare model, especially since I would like to pay off my future student loans someday.

Obama makes me want to :barf: , but I'm an IL resident and that's another story.
 
ironmanf14 said:
I am for sure!

They already really like me, but I want to win them over for good 🙂

I am also going to try to use them for sizing information

Awwww, true love!

My husband called my parents before he bought the ring. They knew a week before I did!

He didn't do anything grandiose to propose, just came home from work and got down on one knee. He did it on Groundhog's Day when I was expecting something on Valentine's though!

Don't put it in champagne or food, though. I've heard so many stories about cracked teeth and choking :laugh:

You know, if you got accepted to your dream school, you could ask them to re-type your acceptance letter with a proposal :laugh:

Here's a website on proposals http://www.firstdance.com/mp2.htm

I like the one where the guy takes her to look at rings "just to look" but already bought one. Her parents were in on it and scheduled a "Sunday BBQ" but really it was an engagement party. That's a cute idea.

Gosh, I'm all excited for you!
 
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hi guys. i dont think i'm coming home tonight. 🙁 i have call at 730 so i'll probably end up sleeping over at the student call room. i have to be here at 6AM tomorrow anyways so if they let me out at 100AM or something its just not worth driving the 45 minutes home and then 45 minutes back in the morning.

i dont have a patient right now though so i'm in the library until my lecture from 5-730, i'm gonna try to get some studying done at least. what sucks is that whatever patient i admit tonight i have to write up the admit note and then research the patients problems for presentation at rounds tomorrow. wtf... if i dont finish the note until 1-2 in the morning, sleeping over in the on call room will be the only way for me to get some sleep.

i said it before...... booooooooooooooooooooo to med student call, we're not freaking residents, its crazy.

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megboo said:
Reducing the number of malpractice cases would be fantastic, but I doubt that the Democrats can really say they cornered the market on this idea. Who DOESN'T want malpractice rates to go down????

Nobody's saying they cornered the market on the idea that there should be fewer malpractice cases. But in saying that addressing the root cause of malpractice is a better plan than tort reform for addressing the medmal issue, I do think they have separated themselves from most of their colleagues across the aisle.

megboo said:
the amount of the awards for reimbursement are ridiculous, especially for the more frivolous cases. And, another reality is that if and/or when malpractice rates go down, the cases that do award will have a significantly higher award. Unfortunately the study that the article cites is from cases 20 years ago. A current study would be more appropriate, especially to find out what kind of errors are made.

The second study cited in the article was published in May. I think that meets most criteria for being current. Since I'm not sure if you read that part, I'll reproduce it here:

Slate said:
The Harvard study stands for a large body of literature. On their own, however, the results don't disprove the Republicans' thesis that many medical malpractice suits are frivolous. Maybe badly injured patients don't sue, while the reflexively litigious clog up the legal system, making tort reform a viable solution. But a new study, released in May, demolishes that possibility. Dr. David Studdert led a team of eight researchers from Harvard Medical School and Brigham Young University who examined 1,452 medical malpractice lawsuits. They found that more than 90 percent of the claims showed evidence of medical injury, which means they weren't frivolous. In 60 percent of these cases, the injury resulted from physician wrongdoing. In a quarter of the claims, the patient died.

When baseless medical malpractice suits were brought, the study further found, the courts efficiently threw them out. Only 150 of the cases in which the researchers couldn't detect injury received even token compensation. Indeed, a bigger problem was that 256 cases were thrown out of court despite evidence of harm to patients by physicians. The other 1,046 cases, in the research team's opinion, were decided correctly, with damage awards going to the injured and dismissal foiling the frivolous suits.

I am interested to know where you get the idea that if total malpractice suits go down, awards will go up. Do you have evidence for that?

megboo said:
I will forever be against a Hillarycare model, especially since I would like to pay off my future student loans someday.

I'm not sure how Hillarycare fits in here. This article doesn't even venture near that territory.
 
Arsenic said:
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hi guys. i dont think i'm coming home tonight. 🙁 i have call at 730 so i'll probably end up sleeping over at the student call room. i have to be here at 6AM tomorrow anyways so if they let me out at 100AM or something its just not worth driving the 45 minutes home and then 45 minutes back in the morning.

i dont have a patient right now though so i'm in the library until my lecture from 5-730, i'm gonna try to get some studying done at least. what sucks is that whatever patient i admit tonight i have to write up the admit note and then research the patients problems for presentation at rounds tomorrow. wtf... if i dont finish the note until 1-2 in the morning, sleeping over in the on call room will be the only way for me to get some sleep.

i said it before...... booooooooooooooooooooo to med student call, we're not freaking residents, its crazy.

[/rant]

some of us would love to be complaining about that right now 🙄
 
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