Things were going great today... until my brother stumbled in, likely drunk, with some woman I've never seen before.
Why does this bother me profusely?
A. While he has been living with me for the last three years, the apartment is currently being leased only to me. Our parents supply part of the rent, but all utilities, most groceries, and most sundries come out of my monies.
B. Most things in the apartment are mine, including the bed he sleeps on (only his clothes, books, and one bookshelf are really his).
C. My apartment is my home, as such I have "valuables" strewn about, jewelry, electronics, banking things, etc. I LIVE there. Having these strange people stomping through my habitat is such an huge invasion, that I'm surprised I haven't told them to GTFO. Hey, there's still time, right?😡
D. He's kind of a selfish douche bag and he never gives me any warning that he will be bringing anyone home and, get this, he never introduces these women (assuming he knows their names). Sure, it's not like there's a different one every night, but even those who come back, aren't introduced. I know their faces, but I don't know their names. I'm willing to give him some privacy, but in return he needs to be respectful of me and my damn property.
It's been awhile since I've visited the "HE NEEDS HIS OWN F-ING PLACE" argument, but I think it's time. He has two jobs now and still doesn't contribute to any expenses. He eats 2/3's of the food and rarely cleans up anything or takes out the trash. If I get into vet school in-state and choose to keep renting my apartment, I'm not putting up with his crap.
I don't think he understands how good he has right now and how lenient I've been considering what a huge dick he is.
Well, that's my rant.
(Also, I have to get up early and head into work but now I'm so pissed off and weirded out by this old-looking strange woman in my apartment that I'll probably stay up all night until she leaves..... make sure she doesn't steal ****.)
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