2nd rant: I moved in with my SO at the end of August, bringing my cat and my dog to his house (where he already had 2 cats and a dog). I noticed right away that one of his cats was losing fur (like prior to my moving in). It has continued to get worse, with almost no fur on the insides of her hindlegs, the ventral portion of her tail, her abdomen, and now her front legs and outside of her hindlegs are missing patches. His cats also went through a bout of diarrhea, vomiting, and inappetence about a month ago, which for that he took them in to his vet (though he refused bloodwork and a fecal... wtf dude) and put them on I/D for awhile until they were eating and defecating normally again. Since then however, the fur loss cat had lost a lot of weight, and hasn't been putting it back on. She's also acting as though she's always starving when previously she was the cat who would leave some of her kibble behind because she would stop eating when she was full. I convinced him to start feeding her more food (up to 1/2-5/8 C a day when before she wasn't even finishing off 3/8 C), am switching her to a higher quality diet (Hills ie what my cat eats vs. Meow Mix), and I went out and bought a Feliway diffuser thinking if it was stress grooming maybe it would help calm her down. She is not getting better, still has the patches of hair loss that are growing, still acts as though she's starving, and still hasn't put on enough weight. This weekend I told him he should take her to the vet and he agreed and promised to call on Monday. Today, we had lunch together, and I reminded him to call the vet since he forgot yesterday. He looks at me and goes "well I don't want to waste a morning going to the vet plus all the money of the exam and you know they'll want to do bloodwork before I'm sure there's anything wrong with her." I straight up wanted to punch him in the face. He makes 6 figures, he just dropped $100 on FISH this weekend, he regularly buys hundreds of dollars worth of board games, computer parts, and video games, and he doesn't want to waste the time or the money on his cat?!?! His favorite of his 2 cats might I add! And I'm in freaking vet school! He should know better than to say that ****!! AAAAAAAGH!!