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I’m so sad I didn’t get to go. Had to sell my tickets once I got in here 🙁Also I am so sorry. Bc I have been reading all the surprise songs she did acoustic this tour. Which I shouldn’t Bc it’s making me sad. But she sang Jump then Fall at that concert!!!! And like ughhh she sang a song from the Platinum Fearless album.
Also tho I appreciate she wanted to do a stadium tour but she also left a lotta states out of that and made trips for folks like ten times longer just to see her. So hopefully she doesn’t do that again right away.
She sung long live during the speak now tour when I saw that one! 😍Also like I’ve never heard Long Live live, and I had a whole freak out moment when she sang that and New Years Day together.![]()
That is the tour I’m the saddest about not getting to go to. Like I said my best friend is like the Taylor mega fan, and she went to every tour but I didn’t start going with her until Red.She sung long live during the speak now tour when I saw that one! 😍
I was just not going to go in and panopto everything later but our physio prof writes on the white board so off to class I'll be going 🙁
This might seem like a bit of a strange rave, but here it is. A little over a year ago I bought some really expensive leather flats. Like, I felt crazy paying that much for ballerina flats. Luckily, they are easily my favorite shoes...super comfortable and I've worn them almost every day since then. I even bought another color to change it up. I wore the original pair so often the ball of my foot rubbed a hole in the leather sole. I'd heard the company had great customer service so I emailed them to see if there was anything I could do to salvage them, and they offered to repair them for free! Even paid for shipping both ways. I got them back today, and they're like new again, just in time for an important presentation.
Confirmed; SAR has a thing for shoesAs a shoe connoisseur (right, @SportPonies ?), I have to know what brand!
Was also curious what brandAs a shoe connoisseur (right, @SportPonies ?), I have to know what brand!

As a shoe connoisseur (right, @SportPonies ?), I have to know what brand!
Tieks.Was also curious what brand![]()
Tieks.
They've been the only flats ever that haven't given me blisters on my little toes or heel. They had almost zero break-in time too...comfortable from day one but got even better as the leather molded to my feet a little. Downside is there is very little to no arch support and they are designed to be fairly low profile on your heel so you can't really add insoles, so if you need the arch support maybe not the best choice.Oh neat! Maybe I'll have to try them some day. I have such a hard time finding comfortable ballet flats
so if you need the arch support maybe not the best choice.

FTFYConfirmed;SARSporty has a thing for SAR's shoes
SaaaaaaaameAaaaaand foiled by the world's flattest feet yet again![]()
Awesome job!!!!! For the constant munching thing, there are pretty easy ways to keep doing that and lose weight. Keeping a bag of veggies with you is a good option. Like a bag of carrots or green beans. They have substance and taste good and can just be eaten raw. But if you’re eating snack foods and still losing weight, then keep it up!Thanks to my amazing diet and exercise routine (aka constantly eating anything and everything but also breastfeeding and getting very little sleep) I'm back down to my pre pregnancy weight!
No but really it's kind of amazing how many calories it must burn because I pretty much munch on snacks all day and keep losing weight. Fingers crossed it continues because I could definitely stand to lose a few more pounds.
Did.....did you just mansplain post-pregnancy weight loss?Awesome job!!!!! For the constant munching thing, there are pretty easy ways to keep doing that and lose weight. Keeping a bag of veggies with you is a good option. Like a bag of carrots or green beans. They have substance and taste good and can just be eaten raw. But if you’re eating snack foods and still losing weight, then keep it up!
How did you take me congratulating her and offering a solution to her hoping to keep losing weight and turn it into me insulting and mansplaining?Did.....did you just mansplain post-pregnancy weight loss?
She doesn’t need to eat only veggies right now..... she’s still eating to nourish two humans. It just happens the second one is now OUTSIDE her body.
Maybe when you told her to snack on veggies instead of other food when she is a new mom who doesn’t need to diet and needs to have high calorie intakes to produce milk to feed her child?How did you take me congratulating her and offering a solution to her hoping to keep losing weight and turn it into me insulting and mansplaining?
I literally said if she’s eating snack food and that works fine, then keep it up. Seriously, are you just finding every thing that I say on this website so you can crap on me for any little thing you disagree with?Maybe when you told her to snack on veggies instead of other food when she is a new mom who doesn’t need to diet and needs to have high calorie intakes to produce milk to feed her child?
Bro she didn’t say she was eating just junk foods. My friend has a 1.5 year old and she ALSO was eating everything she could get her hands on while breastfeeding. And it wasn’t all junk. She just ate about 6 meals a day.I literally said if she’s eating snack food and that works fine, then keep it up. Seriously, are you just finding every thing that I say on this website so you can crap on me for any little thing you disagree with?
Dude, I never said to just eat vegetables. All I said was if she was worried about snacking, snack on veggies. I know tons of women who do that to keep snacking without worrying about calories. It’s seriously not a big deal.Bro she didn’t say she was eating just junk foods. My friend has a 1.5 year old and she ALSO was eating everything she could get her hands on while breastfeeding. And it wasn’t all junk. She just ate about 6 meals a day.
If you know nothing about the topic and the nutritional requirements of a new mom who is breastfeeding, don’t comment on it. It’s the same with animals. They need to seriously increase their calorie intake to produce milk to feed their babies.
I don’t know if you’ve ever been around someone breast feeding, but it takes a LOT of calories to keep up with the demand. New mom’s don’t need to worry about cutting calrories, and really shouldn’t be trying to if they’re trying to breast feed. So while well intentioned, I don’t think she was actually trying to look for ways to lose weight. Just commenting that she was.Dude, I never said to just eat vegetables. All I said was if she was worried about snacking, snack on veggies. I know tons of women who do that to keep snacking without worrying about calories. It’s seriously not a big deal.
animal case in point: how emaciated dairy cows get post parturition! So they basically just load them up with food and hope they don’t lose too much weight.I don’t know if you’ve ever been around someone breast feeding, but it takes a LOT of calories to keep up with the demand. New mom’s don’t need to worry about cutting calrories, and really shouldn’t be trying to if they’re trying to breast feed. So while well intentioned, I don’t think she was actually trying to look for ways to lose weight. Just commenting that she was.

I don’t understand all the speculation when she literally commented that it’s not a big deal, she assumed it was meant well, and is just glad that for now she doesn’t have to change anything.I don’t know if you’ve ever been around someone breast feeding, but it takes a LOT of calories to keep up with the demand. New mom’s don’t need to worry about cutting calrories, and really shouldn’t be trying to if they’re trying to breast feed. So while well intentioned, I don’t think she was actually trying to look for ways to lose weight. Just commenting that she was.
Maybe she said it wasn’t a big deal because she didn’t want to start something. Please refrain from commenting about how a new mom can lose some pounds in the future. Thanks.I don’t understand all the speculation when she literally commented that it’s not a big deal, she assumed it was meant well, and is just glad that for now she doesn’t have to change anything.
I’m just gonna leave it at unsolicited weight loss advice, no matter how well intentioned, isn’t the best idea 😉I don’t understand all the speculation when she literally commented that it’s not a big deal, she assumed it was meant well, and is just glad that for now she doesn’t have to change anything.
So you’re taking on the role of SDN police and attacking people for others who seriously don’t care? And for no reason?Maybe she said it wasn’t a big deal because she didn’t want to start something. Please refrain from commenting about how a new mom can lose some pounds in the future. Thanks.
How bout some ranch dressingI just wanna say veggies are icky unless they're covered in sauce![]()
Took the words out of my mouth. Just don't, unless someone specifically asks for advice...I’m just gonna leave it at unsolicited weight loss advice, no matter how well intentioned, isn’t the best idea 😉
Yep! Dressing, marinade... sometimes all it takes is frying them with salt and pepper ☕How bout some ranch dressing
R u sure she doesn’t care?So you’re taking on the role of SDN police and attacking people for others who seriously don’t care? And for no reason?
I recently introduced my partner to cucumbers and vinegar, and I keep coming home to a fridge with a new stock of cucumbers...Yep! Dressing, marinade... sometimes all it takes is frying them with salt and pepper ☕
Cucumbers are amazingI recently introduced my partner to cucumbers and vinegar, and I keep coming home to a fridge with a new stock of cucumbers...
This didn’t have to turn into anything. At all. She said she hoped it kept up because she felt like she could stand to lose a few more pounds. I gave a super innocuous tip for snacking and also said if she didn’t need to do that, then don’t. That could’ve been the end of it. Then you said I was mansplaining me and decided to start this whole thing.R u sure she doesn’t care?
Are you gonna take on the role of SDN weight loss coach and throw information at others who seriously didn’t ask for it? And for no reason?
Okay but you don’t need to give weightloss tips to anyone who doesn’t ask for them. Especially a new mom who doesn’t need to be cutting calories. If anything, she needs to be taking more in than usual. This didn’t have to turn into anything. At all. But instead you decided to give unsolicited weightloss advice to someone who doesn’t need or want it.This didn’t have to turn into anything. At all. She said she hoped it kept up because she felt like she could stand to lose a few more pounds. I gave a super innocuous tip for snacking and also said if she didn’t need to do that, then don’t. That could’ve been the end of it. Then you said I was mansplaining me and decided to start this whole thing.
As well intentioned as it may have been, it’s not always going to be taken well. So as a good rule of thumb, it’s really best to *not* give weight loss tips unless asked.This didn’t have to turn into anything. At all. She said she hoped it kept up because she felt like she could stand to lose a few more pounds. I gave a super innocuous tip for snacking and also said if she didn’t need to do that, then don’t. That could’ve been the end of it. Then you said I was mansplaining me and decided to start this whole thing.
You totally just called kc a dairy cow 😱animal case in point: how emaciated dairy cows get post parturition! So they basically just load them up with food and hope they don’t lose too much weight.
Edit: no I did not just call kcough a dairy cow, that’d not bode well for me
They’re both cute and adorable. So it’s a compliment really!You totally just called kc a dairy cow 😱
Whether it was totally unsolicited or not, she came in and said it was fine and that she just wanted to share her excitement. That was it. This has already gotten out of hand and gone on long enough. I’m ending it. Here’s a picture of a cat.Okay but you don’t need to give weightloss tips to anyone who doesn’t ask for them. Especially a new mom who doesn’t need to be cutting calories. If anything, she needs to be taking more in than usual. This didn’t have to turn into anything. At all. But instead you decided to give unsolicited weightloss advice to someone who doesn’t need or want it.
That's obviously a picture of two cats.Whether it was totally unsolicited or not, she came in and said it was fine and that she just wanted to share her excitement. That was it. This has already gotten out of hand and gone on long enough. I’m ending it. Here’s a picture of a cat.
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You’ve taken my bait. Rookie mistakeThat's obviously a picture of two cats.
Let's fight about it. 😉