kim,
i know you're a surgical attending now, and i'm sure that this squabble is really blown out of propotion compared to ultimately what happened between you two. knowing you personally, i'm sure if you and jet met in person you'd get along famously.
i don't think the anesthesia forum has it's own rules. what i objected to initially is that the original thread was closed without my involvement. i placed a lot of work and effort into my rebuttal to the poster's claims, and that was summarily deleted by one request by the OP who was apparently embarrassed by his lack of ability to cogently respond. it was addressed and rectified. case closed.
the road to disaster is often paved with good intentions. all i would ask in the future is, before a mod deletes an entire thread, try to look through the content of that thread and surmise what is going on, if any TOS violations occurred (in this case, they hadn't), and not simply fulfill a request because someone asked. this is indeed a public forum, and sometimes people don't like what is said in response to their claims. this does not entitle the person who makes the original claim to censor the response if they don't like it. we can't have a discussion if only one side, in a provocative manner this time i might add, is allowed to be given voice - and then having the ensuing discussion quelled when the resulting response is embarrassing or humiliating to the OP. there are lessons to be learned here on multiple levels.
thanks again for all your hard, volunteer work you're doing here. as i said before, it's a job i don't envy or want. i know and believe that you weren't involved in this initially. and, i don't think this forum plays by a separate set of rules. at least, i hope not.