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hi, thanks for reading this post. i am going to be starting medical school and my girlfriend just finished her first year. we are at different schools but not too far away. we have been dating for many years. she had a hard time during first year and she has been trying to enjoy the summer as much as possible. she goes out drinking every night with different friends. i have been spending time with family and traveling a little bit before school starts. recently she told me that she had kissed one of the guys that she used to study with two nights in a row. both times she was drunk.
this guy is totally not her style of person. she has been confused about our relationship for some time, especially since the demands of medical school have been pretty severe.
i am not sure what to do. she will not break up with me, but i feel like she did this so that i would break up with her. i care for her a lot, but recently she has been making me feel very bad, putting little priority on our relationship. in the past she didn't have many friends and i would always encourage her to be more social and outgoing. now that she had made some close friends in medical school i think she feels like our relationship is consuming too much of her.
i have left out a lot of details, and this post is not well thought out. but i would apprecaite any insights any of you may have. i have not been able to talk to anyone about this and i have become a little depressed of late. i appreciate your thoughtfulness.
this guy is totally not her style of person. she has been confused about our relationship for some time, especially since the demands of medical school have been pretty severe.
i am not sure what to do. she will not break up with me, but i feel like she did this so that i would break up with her. i care for her a lot, but recently she has been making me feel very bad, putting little priority on our relationship. in the past she didn't have many friends and i would always encourage her to be more social and outgoing. now that she had made some close friends in medical school i think she feels like our relationship is consuming too much of her.
i have left out a lot of details, and this post is not well thought out. but i would apprecaite any insights any of you may have. i have not been able to talk to anyone about this and i have become a little depressed of late. i appreciate your thoughtfulness.