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I know that this topic has been beaten to death, but I think I have a slightly different question.
I'm sure that many of you guys have had family members say "Really? You're choosing psychiatry? I thought (generic misconception). Why don't you go into cardiology?"
And yes, I shouldn't care about what other people think, but the fact is that I have a large extended family, and because I love them, I do care what they think.
Interestingly enough, my close friends and family are different. The people who really know me always say "yeah, psychiatry is a good fit for you; I'm glad you're choosing that."
But with the scores of others, I repeatedly find myself going through long and elaborate explanations to address everybody's individual misconceptions and concerns. Like, "no, psychiatrists don't just sit on a couch and do therapy" or "no, psychiatrists make more money than you think" or "no, mental illness IS a real thing, and here's how I know" or "no, I'm not just doing this because I couldn't get into anything else" and on and on and on.
I'm sure that many of you have gone through the same process. Has anybody found a shortcut? I'm thinking about just writing up a little "FAQ" page and handing it out at family gatherings and saying "please read this first; it will answer all of the questions that you are about to ask me... and many of the ones that you have in your head but are too polite to ask (i.e. the one about money).
Or maybe somebody has already made that page? An FAQ page specifically designed for family/friends of students who have chosen to pursue a career in psychiatry? If it already exists, it would save me a lot of headaches. If it doesn't, I'm pretty sure I'll be the one to make it.
I'm sure that many of you guys have had family members say "Really? You're choosing psychiatry? I thought (generic misconception). Why don't you go into cardiology?"
And yes, I shouldn't care about what other people think, but the fact is that I have a large extended family, and because I love them, I do care what they think.
Interestingly enough, my close friends and family are different. The people who really know me always say "yeah, psychiatry is a good fit for you; I'm glad you're choosing that."
But with the scores of others, I repeatedly find myself going through long and elaborate explanations to address everybody's individual misconceptions and concerns. Like, "no, psychiatrists don't just sit on a couch and do therapy" or "no, psychiatrists make more money than you think" or "no, mental illness IS a real thing, and here's how I know" or "no, I'm not just doing this because I couldn't get into anything else" and on and on and on.
I'm sure that many of you have gone through the same process. Has anybody found a shortcut? I'm thinking about just writing up a little "FAQ" page and handing it out at family gatherings and saying "please read this first; it will answer all of the questions that you are about to ask me... and many of the ones that you have in your head but are too polite to ask (i.e. the one about money).
Or maybe somebody has already made that page? An FAQ page specifically designed for family/friends of students who have chosen to pursue a career in psychiatry? If it already exists, it would save me a lot of headaches. If it doesn't, I'm pretty sure I'll be the one to make it.