Wow... I grew up where you could go out whale watching during the right seasons and seeing two or three humpbacks on a whale watching tour is actually quite the find! The first whale watching trip I went on was when I was about 7 or 8. We saw I think one gray whale from a distance on my boat, but it was just a few puffs out of the water. And then we saw a ton of dolphins and porpoises (they're pretty common). I went once more in my teens where we saw nothing but dolphins, and then several times when I was in college as I was taking an ecology of the gray whale course. It was hit or miss - sometimes we saw whales, sometimes we didn't.
There are a few things to keep in mind. First, a whale watching boat is not allowed to approach a whale any closer than 600 feet. If the whale comes closer to you, that's fine. But they are not allowed to pursue the whales any closer. They are considered under protection.
Second, there are concerns that whales are starting to change their migratory and swimming habits. They aren't staying as close to the shoreline as they used to, possibly because of whale watching and boating habits. The last trip I went on out of San Fran said that they used to see Blue Whales at least a few times a season, but hadn't seen ANY in the last 5 or so years (I was still keeping my fingers crossed).
Unfortunately, wild animals can't be counted on to be there when you want them. Whale watching is a TON of fun, but its not a guarantee you'll find anything other than a couple birds and maybe some dolphins. I suggest everyone go at least once, just be realistic about what you're going to see!