You are incorrect in that comment--whatever the 5/10 vs. 8/10 means. The only real objective measurement we have for physical beauty is symmetry--everything else varies from place to place, culture to culture, era to era.
At any rate, you'd be surprised, women in particular, can often be more holistic in appraisal for mates, in general, as compared with men, which is not to say that men cannot be holistic in making their choices as well. The later usually requires a lot of inner confidence, balance, and maturity within the individual man or woman. You can't go by purely high schools relationships or early college; but especially in more recent generations, the general level of overall maturity is lacking comparing to say 20 years ago or more. People have also been "idiotized" by the plethora of incessant media influences and such--so much that they think something that should be much more than sexual pleasure is just "banging." They don't even get the depth of emotional/spiritual expenditure that goes into sexual encounters--whether it is conscious or subconscious. Yes, you know there have been studies on this. Playing fast and lose with sexual intimacy can be a real problem for people.
Also, one of the biggest things that are important to women is the ability to trust. They may have developed the opposite in their own behavior, b/c they feel that having a trusting relationship is a joke, so if you can't beat em, join em.
Geez, Billy Joel just married, what, his forth wife. NOW the dude is talented and has some bucks; but he wouldn't be considered in our culture as highly physically attractive. Woman are less likely, in general, however to see men as trophies, as men seek out certain types as "trophies." Part of that is a subconscious desiree to reproduce with optimally genetically healthy individuals. Some women may well see them as meal tickets or holders of the gold. In general, when women are interested interrelationships, they physical becomes a smaller part of the whole--and ultimately that is probably true for males also that want long-term, meaningful relationships. Like most men that go primarily for the "trophy" wife, gold-digging women will also probably not be ultimately happy and fulfilled in their relationship with the partner in the long-term. Same thing is also true when people marry others in order to try to happy pretty kids; the connection will be a plus; but ultimately that alone does not guarantee the longevity of the relationship--there's got to be a lot more to make the long haul.