It depends on the personality of the dentist. I got a very high evaluation from the 2 dentists where I did an internship. They both liked how I talked to the patients and how I manage to calmed down the nervous ones including kids (well, I'm a mom all you have to do is talk about Sponge Bob).
One of them talked to death and is the King of multitasking at chatting while pulling a tooth or doing root canals.....I had no idea how he managed to talk TOO MUCH LIKE A RADIO and still do a good job! LOL!! The other was more quiet and talked very soft when it was necessary. He is very sweet.
At first, you are a total stranger and all you have to do is be confident, ask a question when you have one. Pay attention to what's put on the table with instruments, materials, etc...click with the staff and smile not matter what
be early, positive, happy, content, humble, not matter how nasty of a day you are having.
Ask the dentist to explain you chair-side manners
because each dentist has their own unique way to treat their patients ethically. With dentist #1, I watched him do work on a 95 yr old lady...I LOVE seniors and was like about to jump up and down from excitement....when he showed me some gum problems I said loud: OH WOW!!!!!!! And he was like oh no! I forgot to teach you "manners"....he said never say "wow" "OMG" or anything like that because that makes people nervous! Ooooppsss.....luckily the lady couldn't hear a thing and he just laugh with the assistant....after that only when he saw MD she would allowed me to say OMG, and WOW!
I really clicked with these 2 guys, but not so much with another one who was older and extremely conservative in every imaginable way. I'd had cry if I to deal with him for over 170+ hours!
So Dr Pretty, my darling, is not you, it's her! You girls didn't click, maybe some PMS was involved from her part? Maybe she didn't like to talk and work at the same time? I hope you can find someone that *you* click with soon.
I did a formal internship, so if you want more tips on how to succeed in the dental office just send me a PM
I've seen and lived the good, the bad and the ugly of shadowing. I went from being an stranger to having lunch with the dentists every day, and getting a job offer as well