Hello,
I'm didn't want to start a new thread for fear of this question already being addressed, but feel free to move my post to a separate thread if necessary.
I have had two clinical shadowing experiences. The first mentoring opportunity was with an OB/GYN MD who specializes in Urogynecology and Pelvic Reconstructive Surgery. I thoroughly enjoyed my weekly half-day sessions observing while she met with patients, but it was only for one month back in 2008.
The second, more recent opportunity was with a Complementary and Alternative Medicine DO who practices pain medicine and internal medicine. I met with him for two hours, during which time we chatted up a storm in his office but did not see any patients.
I stopped shadowing the first physician because she went on vacation, and then she never returned my calls to continue shadowing. For the second physician, I'm not sure what happened but after our two hour meeting, he basically wished me good luck and that was that. I wanted to ask if I could come in during another time when he was seeing patients, but I wasn't sure if this was appropriate since his tone was that our one-time-only meeting was sufficient.
Unfortunately for both opportunities, I feel like I must have dropped the ball in terms of explaining why I wanted to shadow them. When I initially approached both physicians about shadowing, I *thought* I had made it fairly clear that I have the time to devote and that I am interested in more of a long-term type of shadowing.
Before all this, I had assumed that physicians would have at least a vague idea of what pre-meds mean when they ask about shadowing, but I think that was a false assumption. Since I really didn't develop a connection with either physician, I would really like to keep trying to find another physician to shadow.
What tips would you suggest to make it completely clear from the beginning that I am interested in something that is more than just "come in and let's talk and that's it". I know I need to be direct and up-front with what I am looking for, but what specific things should I mention when contacting potential physicians?
Thank you in advance.