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As you already have an acceptance, and going to UK would cause you a lot of emotional distress, it's Ok to dump UK.Hi all,
I applied to and was accepted to UMKC last week. Because they start in January, gave me only a few days to commit to attending. They're a really wonderful school, but I have other schools I applied to that I like just as much. My top choice sent me an interview invitation a little while ago and I was really looking forward to interviewing with them. They have a low post-II acceptance rate, but I am so thrilled to even have a shot. I also interviewed as an OOS applicant at an state school (with strong in-state bias) and really liked their program (minus the steep OOS tuition).
If I decide to go to UMKC, I have to give my two weeks notice at work, drop everything, and move in under a month. In this process, I will throw my dance school, dance students, and coworkers under the bus, as well as be forced to break my lease. My family is under a lot of pressure as it is (they all have COVID...), and I'm concerned about causing even more stress with this.
I also have a current acceptance to Goro-approved DO school, which I am very grateful for. I also have an interview scheduled with another Goro-approved DO school next week. I haven't heard back from 15 of my other schools and have no rejections at the moment. I'm a decent ORM non-trad applicant (LM 71 with post-bacc GPA>3.9 + MCAT>515, solid but quirky ECs by virtue of being a nontrad). Is it irrational to decline because I want to hold out for other schools? Or am I being ridiculous by not taking this acceptance and running with it?
Do you have any recommendations or additional considerations for how to handle this situation? Thank you so much for all that you do.
Questions bolded because I know you're busy and I need to work being more parsimonious with my words.
How do they get off with starting in January?????