Should I tell the recommender what to write?

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I asked the dentist I shadowed to write me a letter for NHSC. Although she does know that I've volunteered a lot throughout college, she doesn't know the specifics.

Should I ask her to mention specific activities? (I could send her a list with descriptions.)

I don't want to come across as if I'm trying to put words into her mouth, but I'm worried that if I dont tell her the specifics, she'll just talk about my interest in dentistry, which is not what NHSC are asking.
 
Many profs and dentists will ask you for brief summary of points you want to be included in the letter, especially if they don't know you really well. I doubt any of them is simply going to copy and paste what you said into your letter. It just helps them write a letter. Normally, just let the writer take care of things unless they specifically ask for your input. Some writers might be annoyed if you try to tell them what to say.
 
I sent my CV and a couple of papers/abstracts.
 
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