My wife and I have recently had a baby boy. I am hopefully about two yrs. away from being accepted to med school. My wife wants to have a second child in two yrs. so that our children can grow up together. When I go to med school though I will not be able to work which will force my wife to get a job (maybe even two). Being a good father and the sole provider for my family has always been a source of pride for me. Here are my questions. Should I wait to have a second child or should I wait to go to med school? Is it physically possible to be a good father/spouse in the midst of med school? Is there anything that I can do in the next two yrs. to ease the financial burden that my inability to work will place on my family? That's it. Much appreciation to anyone who can help.