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I didn't before, but do now... (want kids)... but I never say that because it's pretty much just rude no matter what happens.
Just to explain how it worked for me... well, I really don't like kids - they're gross, rude, noisy, inconsiderate, etc. etc. (as expected, you know, and I'm referring to the younger ones here). My sister had #1 at age 21, then proceeded to have #2, #3, #4, and finally #5 at age 32 or so. So now, I have a bit more firsthand experience with children, including diapers, boogers, arguing, scraped knees, and now... a teenager with a cell phone. Terrifying!
I also get to see some of the sweeter things, though. For example, I visited for Xmas. I was jumping on the trampoline with the husband and the middle girls + middle boy. At one point, I revealed that uncle B is ticklish (And I am not) so we all ganged up on him - it was basically the cutest thing ever, and it definitely popped into my mind, "He is going to make a GREAT Dad someday." Or how about when the blonde one interrups a conversation to declare, "I fall over sometimes!" and then giggle... or when she runs around the back yard with the doggie pooper scooper pretending it's a sword... lol. I dunno, I changed for sure (not that recently, these are just examples). I now can't imagine NOT sharing that experience with him someday.
However, I know there are lots of people who say it and mean it, so... me =/= you. Obv.
Just to explain how it worked for me... well, I really don't like kids - they're gross, rude, noisy, inconsiderate, etc. etc. (as expected, you know, and I'm referring to the younger ones here). My sister had #1 at age 21, then proceeded to have #2, #3, #4, and finally #5 at age 32 or so. So now, I have a bit more firsthand experience with children, including diapers, boogers, arguing, scraped knees, and now... a teenager with a cell phone. Terrifying!
I also get to see some of the sweeter things, though. For example, I visited for Xmas. I was jumping on the trampoline with the husband and the middle girls + middle boy. At one point, I revealed that uncle B is ticklish (And I am not) so we all ganged up on him - it was basically the cutest thing ever, and it definitely popped into my mind, "He is going to make a GREAT Dad someday." Or how about when the blonde one interrups a conversation to declare, "I fall over sometimes!" and then giggle... or when she runs around the back yard with the doggie pooper scooper pretending it's a sword... lol. I dunno, I changed for sure (not that recently, these are just examples). I now can't imagine NOT sharing that experience with him someday.
However, I know there are lots of people who say it and mean it, so... me =/= you. Obv.