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Hello all,
As a non-healthcare person in a relationship with a premed, I was hoping you guys could give me your opinion on the below. I'd appreciate it greatly.
My SO is a nontraditional premed who will be attending a post baccalaureate program this fall. She'll be applying for medical school.
She has been living with her parents, aunt, and stepbrother to save money, but the household is very stressful and it's really taking a toll on her. She is now in a financial position to move out but her overprotective & controlling family tells her she will do very badly if she does since she'll have to take care of herself, will be a failure, they'll cut her off, etc. Personally, I think her family is manipulative and that she should just get out this fall.
However, while she admits the situation is emotionally taxing/toxic, she's afraid that she actually will do as badly as her parents say in this critical year if she moves out, and says she can "endure it a while longer". She thinks I am being selfish and underestimating the work she'll have to do. Is she right? If so, please tell me so I can stop being a jerk.
As a non-healthcare person in a relationship with a premed, I was hoping you guys could give me your opinion on the below. I'd appreciate it greatly.
My SO is a nontraditional premed who will be attending a post baccalaureate program this fall. She'll be applying for medical school.
She has been living with her parents, aunt, and stepbrother to save money, but the household is very stressful and it's really taking a toll on her. She is now in a financial position to move out but her overprotective & controlling family tells her she will do very badly if she does since she'll have to take care of herself, will be a failure, they'll cut her off, etc. Personally, I think her family is manipulative and that she should just get out this fall.
However, while she admits the situation is emotionally taxing/toxic, she's afraid that she actually will do as badly as her parents say in this critical year if she moves out, and says she can "endure it a while longer". She thinks I am being selfish and underestimating the work she'll have to do. Is she right? If so, please tell me so I can stop being a jerk.
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