I thought my first post here too. Really, I did. Even think I blogged about it. So I didn't come back for a few weeks or a month. Then reread what I wrote and

... it was not the finger pointing at them that was the issue, it was the three pointing back at me.
You probably had people wanting to help you until your snotty, rude, disparaging comments came whipping out. Then you got the rest of us engaged. And then started attacking us.
That's probably not going to help your cause.
At the "nasty" ... well, I've seen far worse and in my head, it is far worse but because grace and dignity are > than anything else, I'm keeping my thoughts to myself.