That was not my assertion at all, in fact, until know you did not provide the fact that you were an eye doctor and I certainly am not a good at guessing.
No, the military is not excited about med boarding senior officers that are medical professionals. As you have already pointed out, you are not a 22 year old E-4, so the amount of cash the Navy invested in you becoming an eye doctor is astronomical in comparison. Not to mention the vast shortage of medical professionals in the military.
On the other hand, you have to be very careful of what you wish for. If the military sends you through an MEB and considers you disabled, gives you a rating, then who in the civilian world would to hire you? For what it is worth, I am a relatively healthy person and had no pre-existing conditions whenever I applied for civilian disability insurance. I can tell you that if I had to cash in on my disability insurance tomorrow, that the monthly reimbursement pales in comparison to my monthly salary. Also, some civilian insurance companies have a waiting period before they disperse money.
As far as being jaded, truthfully I am not, I believe in Karma and we all get what we deserve in the end. I have more than once overhead soldiers coach each other as to how to obtain a formal diagnosis of PTSD and TBI so that they could boost their ratings. Yes, I sat their quietly without them knowing that I was listening or knowing who I was. Hey, we all have a concsious and we all know what is right and wrong. Once these guys bankrupt the VA system, which by the way is doing a bang up job with their reputation in the press these days, they will only hurt themselves. The only anger that I have is the fact that these types ruin it for men and women that really need it. I suppose that was the moral of my rant earlier, because the system is unreliable (and when was it ever?) and there are those out there ruining it for everybody else, then we simply cannot rely on the military to take care of our needs. Sad? Perhaps? But unfortunately a truth the affects individuals like yourself and I am sorry for your experience.
I suppose my only advise, which somebody already sort of gave you, would be to cash in on your 911 GI Bill and go back and re-train in a medical profession that does not require mechanical aptitude. If you are already an eye doctor, then you posess a wealth of knowledge to share with others and can make a smooth transition.