Hi! I am now in my 2nd semester at Cornell and am from MA so I can comment on my personal experiences a little more now. I don’t have as much knowledge about Tufts, of course.
Vet school is going to be hard everywhere, that’s a given. Our block 1 class was very well integrated and I enjoyed PBL, but it could be frustrating depending on what tutor you have. But I loved going through real-life cases in the context of the anatomy, radiology, histology, etc. it wasn’t just PBL, a lot of our stuff was lecture based. But they want PBL to be the center of how you integrate all the info you’re learning.
I have been able to get a lot of hands on animal experience. We started learning PE on dogs/cats, horses, and cows in our first week. We have also had surgical skills labs for knot tying which have been super fun! I work in the animal hospital and I really enjoy it. There are multiple services you can choose from including wildlife, surgery, pharmacy, exotics, ICU, large animal hospital, ER, etc. I’ve also been able to step out of my comfort zone and milk some cows
There are also a lot of abroad and research opportunities if you’re into either.
I think you would be well-served going to Cornell if you are interested in internal medicine, but as you probably know your interests may change. I’m not sure what I want to go into yet but have received some great advice from professors.
In terms of location, being away from family is hard. One of my parents has a serious medical condition and it is hard to be away from home. The drive isn’t too bad (I went home for Thanksgiving and Christmas) but it wont be practical to visit home for a weekend. If you’re able to live with your family in MA and not pay rent that would also take a huuuge load off your debt, something to consider. I think there is something to be said about being homesick, being more independent, stepping out of the comfort zone, etc but if you believe it would impact your mental health long-term I would do what’s healthiest for you, since vet school is quite stressful and a support system is important. I know people who talk to/FaceTime their parents almost everyday and that helps. I went to undergrad out of state and every summer so I’m sort of used to being away from family.
in terms of practical skills, I think it’s tough, because they have so much to teach you in vet school and it’s also dependent on the student to practice as they can. I feel competent in basic surgical knot ties already which is great. I hear a lot that Cornell students in general may not have as much rote memorization down, but are great at using logic to work through cases since we start doing that day 1 in PBL.
just my 2 cents! Happy to answer any follow up questions. I was in your position last year and I don’t think you can go wrong