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I think two issues are getting confused here. First, is the perception that the OP is trying to blame others for his performance. The second is a general consensus that the OP is wrong to be upset that others are cheating, that it's wrong for the OP to point out that others are cheating unless he's never done anything wrong in his life, and that most people on SDN will apparently do anything it takes to get ahead in the pre-med rat race, ethics be damned.
To the first point, nobody here can possibly profess to know what the OP is thinking. Trying to claim that he is blaming others for his performance in the class when he claims he's not seems silly.
To the other points, I'm glad that the OP is upset that others are cheating. He should be, as should we all. I'm glad that he values his own integrity and refuses to participate in dishonest behavior. We should all aspire to do likewise. I don't know where to start with the suggestion that the OP can't complain unless he's perfect. That's just flat out wrong-headed. I'm not perfect--does that mean I can't point out that people who plagiarize/pay others to write their papers are cheaters who deserve to be unceremoniously cashiered out of their university?
Frankly, I'm appalled that we seem to have gotten to the point where we defend the cheaters (after all, they're simply using the resources available to them!), but condemn those who point out others who aren't playing by the rules. That is seriously screwed up.
All the OP is doing is pointing out that he was put at a disadvantage by choosing to play by the rules, and was harmed by people who knowingly broke them. In life, we all have to learn that there are a large number of people walking around who will gladly break the rules to get ahead, and that we'll be hurt because of it. It sounds like the OP is learning that lesson here. Yes, it's a fact of life that he'll have to come to grips with. Be that as it may, I'm pretty sure flogging him over the internet isn't going to help him.
Honestly, thank you for this. Probably the best stated post on this thread. It's going to be a hard pill to swallow, but I guess I'll have to deal with it.