NeighborhoodCatLady
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For the past couple of months I’ve been noticing that I keep running into people who may think that they are helping me but instead come off as if they are on power trips. I experienced it again in class today.
I am in an anatomy lab with a woman who feels like she must watch every move I make and comment on everything I do. For most people in the class, this is their first class of the sort. However, this is my third. I try not to be cocky and too sure; however, if my friends or classmates ask me for help and I can, I try to use what I learned in my other classes to help them. Example: if they want to know which muscles attach at a certain point, I’ll share an applicable mnemonic. But, it seems like every time I say something this woman is around to tell me why my mnemonic or advice won’t work. And, it’s like I can’t get near the cadavers without her watching me like a hawk and “reminding” me what to do. I don’t see what the issue is, because I’m careful not to give out wrong information or damage the specimens. (In contrast, I realize that she sometimes gives my classmates incorrect information. I don’t say anything, though.) I’m trying to be humble and understand where she’s coming from, but I’m also getting annoyed.
How do you all deal with this? I don’t want to come off cocky, but I would like for people like her to stop micromanaging me.
I am in an anatomy lab with a woman who feels like she must watch every move I make and comment on everything I do. For most people in the class, this is their first class of the sort. However, this is my third. I try not to be cocky and too sure; however, if my friends or classmates ask me for help and I can, I try to use what I learned in my other classes to help them. Example: if they want to know which muscles attach at a certain point, I’ll share an applicable mnemonic. But, it seems like every time I say something this woman is around to tell me why my mnemonic or advice won’t work. And, it’s like I can’t get near the cadavers without her watching me like a hawk and “reminding” me what to do. I don’t see what the issue is, because I’m careful not to give out wrong information or damage the specimens. (In contrast, I realize that she sometimes gives my classmates incorrect information. I don’t say anything, though.) I’m trying to be humble and understand where she’s coming from, but I’m also getting annoyed.
How do you all deal with this? I don’t want to come off cocky, but I would like for people like her to stop micromanaging me.