You get it at least half of it. Life is rude, bs like yr spreading. Telling him you'll be ok when you know he's not even close. So heres a tuff one smart a&&, are you lying to him and others or are you bulls&& ter to make everyone smile like a kindergarten teacher😍. Hmm regarding serious life decisions we should be Honest. Maybe less rude but come on the dude is seriously struggling and if you think asking that he talk abt video games is even remotely mature is sad. Remember yr at an age where yr brain is still growing, mine is finished. Now if you don't get that then you should not be in any graduate program. ....ok for the slow after age 25-30 yr yr prefrontal cortex ( decision making, consequences, rationale ) finishes development. At that time you'll according to ME is when you are a true adult. You will see things soooo differently, quite amazing actually. So rem. when writing back puerile, immature, bs, lies, and dishonesty will just go to show you failed in yr argument. I will try to be less rude as soon as you stop bulls&&$$ing others. It doesn't help it's misguidance