Those are not the same thing though. As you said, doctors have to be non-judgemental, so at the end of the day, they must uphold a patient's choice without judgment, if abortion is what they want, even if that goes against the doctor's own morals. If they refuse, one can argue they are imposing their own moral values onto the patient. Doctors have the power to harm their patients by refusing abortion care. Who does a trans person harm by existing, as long as they aren't demanding everybody to transition against their will (like if doctors denied patients abortion)?
If a doctor is pro-life themselves but still respects and helps patients access safe abortions, I respect that. If a doctor is pro-life and denies their patients access to abortion because they personally believes it’s wrong, yes I believe they deserve to be judged.
I am not saying that Dr. Collier has refused abortion care for patients and I have no doubt that her abortion stance is nuanced. I am not judging her for having personal beliefs, whatever they are. Just saying your comparison does not hold up.